"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good advice on Kroq Loveline last night

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dk1990S111

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Some dude called in and started off by asking how he can put himself out there again with how it seems like it is so much easier for people to cheat these days. He had been cheated on in the past and didnt want to give anyone that power again.

The guy psycho mike just told him he needs to get over it and get out there because talking about how women are different these days wont change anything and taking that risk is a part of life, growing and learning how people are.

I know I have a hard time with it after being cheated on by my ex BPD, hard to see the good in girls but that wouldnt stop me from going out and having a good time.

Had a bigger impact when it was someone speaking but you get the idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ya definitely basic but still good advice for people that want to sit here typing about how hard it is to find a quality woman these days.
 
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