"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good advice and will forever hold my post

Anikan

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Hey Guys I recently posted **** this ****ing life post i am new to this website
all i want i some good advice on how make this girl regret that she should have chose me.In way tha does not involved violence or straigth stupidity but wisdom from dj's.
if you dont understand want im talking view my post **** this ****king life you ll understand then.
By the way i will not post this shhht about this situation no more,But agree to attain Don Anikan Nirvanna.:yes:
May the force of the Don Juan be with.

Sincerly Anikan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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The best revenge is living well. Take it out on women as a gender by sleeping with as many beautiful ones as possible, preferably at the same time. If you can master plate spinning, that puts you ahead of I think over 90% of other guys and gives you a sex life that about every guy would envy. Single life is freedom, and the best revenge is making the most of that freedom.

Plate Theory threads:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132452
 

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What he said, nothing will piss of your ex more than seeing you with a girl hotter than her.
 

kdnash82

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I agree 100% with everything they said. You really wanna piss off a girl, do good in life. If you don't work out, start, get ripped. Succeed in life. Get that better position at your job. Get the things in life you wished you had. Date more women than you can handle.

In the end, you will totally forget about the other woman. She will become a distant memory and there will be no need to wish bad upon her because you've beat her already. You're the shish while she's with Joe Blowme.
 

Anikan

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Thanks

Hey Guys
Thanks for the replys really helpful speacially the plate spinning thats Cool Stuff.You guys are right.:up:

I would to apologize for being such a big ***** AFC. I shall continue my training.

Thank You Anikan:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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