Gonna try to go for it. My day-off plan

[slitherjef]

Im pumped up or something, maybe its the lack of sleep or I am still just feeding off the high I got when I got my first number a couple days ago, but man, I want to get out there again, this time at a mall or something and just go for it. Im just, I guess motivated. Got a plan working out to have my buddy go with me to see how its done and hope kick my ass into gear. Also plan on getting a haircut (how long has it been since I paid for a haircut?) style. A new Tee shirt and longsleeve, something dark with pinstripes Something casual to go with my black jeans. May need to pick up a new pair of shoes because I don't think tennis shoes are steel-toed work shoes will do the trick, nor will dress shoes.

The regular baseball cap has been ditched, replaced with a fedora hat, which I dig. Not that am going bald or anything, it does grab attention because you don't see these types of hats everyday, at least around here, that I know of.

Probably need to clean-shave before I go out. All this I hope to boost my confidence a bit more.

Once this is done. The hard part and the biggies... talking and eyecontact.
I know what needs to be done, I just got to do it. Probably will take me a bit of work.
1) See hottie
2) Wait to see if she notices me
3) If she does notice me go to step 4 if not, repeat step 1,2)
4) Catch her eyes
5) Smile
6) Wait for her response
7) if she smiles and maintains good eye contact - approch
8) Say "Hi"
9) Wait for response
10) Say something like David D's classic: "Hey, my name is slitherjef and I am
conducting a social experiment to help me overcome my fears of talking to women that I find attractive. Thank you for participating!" and then walk off

Whew... thats alot :nervous: Probably alot more then a days work right there, but I know what needs to be done.

And if my buddy don't show up, I think I may hit up the bookstore anyway and start.

 

[Serialized3]

No offense man, but Denver isn't exactly a cosmopolitan enough city where fedoras are embraced. You're gonna look weird, but not in a peacocking way.

 

[Serialized3]

But on a positive note, you have a pretty good plan set up to start meeting women. The whole EC/smile/open thing is solid.

Don't be suprised if you start getting rapport with some of the women and don't be afraid to go for a #close.

Good luck man!

 

[slitherjef]

No offense man, but Denver isn't exactly a cosmopolitan enough city where fedoras are embraced. You're gonna look weird, but not in a peacocking way.

Im so used to a hat, usualy wear a baseball cap forward. But hell, if I am gonna style my hair or at least pay for a cut, might as well show it off.

Just need to come up with a style. Got short brown hair

 

[RBB]

Enjoy ur day off. I look forward to reading the FR.

Don't get your hair cut too short, leave something to work with. I recently got my long hair cut and it looks better now. Real confidence booster that hair thing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKPMz186Zrw looks good.

 

[slitherjef]

Well, crud. Its raining pretty hard at least right now, so things are on hold. But not everything. I can still work on my inner game, read some stuff in the bible, like WOMS and wait for a break in the clouds then head out and find a new shirt or two. Maybe a hairstyle mag, but to think about it, I think most are geared towards women.

Also thinking about a diet, well improving it. Replace soda with water, gatorade and juice. Stay the heck away from the fast food joints, though I don't eat many burgers or taco bell, but hit up the local burrito joint and subshop too much, but recently when I do, I go vegitarian to get more veggies in my diet. Just some little stuff to make me feel even a bit more better about my self. Think its working some

If I do hit up the local target for a couple shirts, I will try eye contact and smile. I can also sit at home go in the bathroom wet my head and screw around with style ideas. I got some glue so LOL

 

[lyamdb]

if an HB8+ gives me eye contact or smiles at me, I'll never approach her. if I do, it won't feel like I'm a real man. she knows she can push my button and turn me on just by looking at me and she does it! if an HB+ smiles at me with the eyes of a woman who owns every man's soul, I just give a confident smile back and that's it. if I'm to approach an HB8+, it will only be 100% cold approach with no signal from her.

 

[Dongfu]

Here are the first two keys for an effective greeting as explained in Dong Fu

1. Eye Contact:

When you approach a customer, do not look at her breasts or some other part of her body. You want to send the message that you are interested in her as a person first, not simply as a sale. The eye is the window to the sale. The pupil is the access point to the vagina. Make a pupil-to-pupil connection, and then go directly to the next Key.

2. Smile:

Not all smiles are appropriate for the initial greeting. Women are hesitant to reciprocate an overzealous smile for fear of sending the wrong message. Smiling at an eager, possibly sex deprived man is like flashing money at a desperate salesperson. It is just not safe. Your smile should be something like a ****y smirk with a warm-hearted under-glow.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

No offense man, but Denver isn't exactly a cosmopolitan enough city where fedoras are embraced. You're gonna look weird, but not in a peacocking way.

Yeah, I'd suggest riding a bike, climbing a rock or paddling a kayak to meet women in Colorado.

 

[Serialized3]

Yeah, we do have a lot of outdoorsy people here. I like to go to the REI down by confluence park and mack on the girls that work there.

Outdoorsy chicks = HOTT

 

[slitherjef]

Well, I did get out, picked up a pair of tee shirts and a nice long sleeve black shirt with white pinstripes. Which I suspect will go okay with black jeans, belt ankle cut work boots (no laces) and either a black tee or grey. As my casual go-out wear.

As far as a field report from the outing? Shhi.....This is not cutting it. Could not make eye contact, well that is until I was waiting on the bus on the way home I turn my head and see this hot ass chick in a white Acura. A little thick, but hey, she looked good. I turn my head, barely catching her eye. DAMN!! They where waiting to turn. I got a glance at the driver too, which was talking on her cell. She was hot too.

I played it off. C'mon I just had a nice look at WOMS. I felt like slapping myself. I started to think as they pulled away...
Just take a peak, push it, you know you want to, I mean, what are they going to do? Drive off? Roll down the window and yell at you? Pull back, get out have a chat?

They drove off... And looked kind of young, like jailbait. Which is one reason I did not look at em.