"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Gonna Stage a Fight Tonight to Impress a Woman
- Thread starter Thugo
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
At least you'll be talking about it in jail right?
Just make sure when you do a head lock to time it, otherwise your buddy will be "unconcious" for good.
"too many Disney films in mind" oh sh*t! :crackup:
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Think about it back in the day yea fighting was seen as "sexy" when we all used to be in danger in the Stone Age up to the era when gunpowder was used in order to kill.
Back then it was a kill or be killed situation and women liked the security a man could give her and her children, and a man wanted a strong woman to allow her to bear strong children. Part of that instinct is still there but now a days it’s portrayed in a different manner.
Now we seek a different kind of attractive women (not the butch muscular types) in order to make handsome children. A man can now show his worth and valour through speech, metro sexuality is making us realise that we have to take care of ourselves. A PUA or a DJ is a man who is a metro-sexual who studies the female psyche in order to sleep and/or get into a relationship with any desired target.
So before you do anything retarded think about all the ways in which you could impress this girl with your wit and charisma... If all you have to offer is physical protection and she is stupid enough to fall for it (though I doubt you even stand a chance if she really does martial arts) it will not last very long (not even long enough for you to kiss her). Think about it if she was into that sort of thing she would be dating a black belt in her class or the master. A person who has not trained in the arts looks stupid and incoherent, opposed to a person who has had training and experience.
In order for that **** your talking about to work it would have to be much, much more sinister, and I am not going to go into that **** because if anyone here was scum enough to try it I would probably kill them if I ever caught them.
Anyway bro hope you have good luck with your lady friend, but trust me just ask her about her martial arts and learn something. The more you learn by listening the more you will know in the future.
Hugs and kisses
Amethystos - Honestly I’m not drunk!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
silverfox
Don Juan
It's the Tao of Jeet Kune Do - ie, be like water, make her wet.
If that fails then just use some C&F and negs.
I saw this super hot babe in a bar this evening and I shouted, "hey fatso, are those funbags real or what?"
She loved it! She was all over me! Next thing I know we are back at her place with her bi-curious lingerie model housemates playing naked twister.
:woo:
This might be the best *unkown* part...
I think this can end worst that being incredibly Crush & Burned in the middle of a disco by a top hot babe that didnt like you... If being rejected can be a pain with bad inner game, what can be this after that spectacle? :woo:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LeviathanIYG
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Knight in shining armour concept went out
of fashion in the 50's.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Thugo = DrBeard
Case closed.
:cheer:
LongDrinkofWater
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Go ahead, make a fool out of yourself in front of everybody at the club. You will look like an idiot, and your friend will too. The HB in question won't want anything to do with you afterwards, just wait and see. Besides, my gut tells me you won't do it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.