"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gonna have to live with my parents until 31

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Good for you wanting to make something of yourself, don't let others deter you. I'm sure it's hard work, but it should be rewarding, in more ways than one.
I hope you're right. The thing is I want to balance out time with family. Don't want a cheating wife or something screwy like that. I've prepped myself about 3 years ago to know how to deal with it in case it does happen, but I still don't want it to nonetheless as it would be a nuclear option that could potentially cost me my life. That's one of the biggest things. I don't want to have to raise kids into my 60s either, I want to enjoy myself a lot more than that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It is going to be very tough for you, a lonely road.

For some reason I pulled a lot of women while living at home though, lol.
That's something I'm wondering about. They don't mind that you're gonna be having sex with your parents right downstairs or something?
 
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