"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gonna drop her but she keeps texting me. how do i get rid of her

duke104

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girl keeps flaking and said shes not ready for anything. im dropping her but she texts me every day. how do i get rid of her? i cant just ignore her cause we have a lot of mutual friends and i see her out on weekends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pierce

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Wow.... simple questions........

There is nothing wrong with not replying... Just say you are busy.
 

st_99

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Sooooo what are you dropping exactly? I mean, if she is taking up too much
space in your inbox I guess that might be a hassle.
 

PapiChulo

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Why dont you just tell her honestly how it really is.

Not replying is actually what a woman would do, it is also disrespectful. I ve done this to people intentionally because of their poor behavior and had them pursue me even more until they have gotten pissed off and it all turned pretty ugly.
 
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