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Gone To Surgery to improve my hound dog-looking eyes

NeedToImprove

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hi guys just to tell you that i've gone through a procedure called canthopexy where you raise the external corners of the eyes making them more almond cat eye shaped and atractive and also had malar fat injection, to make the malar area look fuller.

thanks to a user here i dont remember he said i looked like droopy the dog (i had an antimongoloid slant, outer corners of the eyes tilted downwards) , eyes sad, tired and without expression. Man i cant thank you enough, i think this is the best advice someone could give me. Im still very swollen but even my sister said now that my eyes look different and more oriental shaped.

sometimes being confident is not enough and a surgery (it was free) here and there always help where confidence doesnt. :)

here's some before and after pics: now i just need a tan and some gym and im ready to roll :up:

Befiore surgery 2012

http://dkm80tng5uqm9.cloudfront.net/full/cb6797d322440dbc42cbdd9a573d4f17/919422-1216072.jpg


http://dkm80tng5uqm9.cloudfront.net/full/cb6797d322440dbc42cbdd9a573d4f17/919422-1216073.jpg


After Surgery 2013 (this was taken 2 days after surgery. but its getting better and better now, more almond shaped), will remove stitches friday.


http://dkm80tng5uqm9.cloudfront.net/full/cb6797d322440dbc42cbdd9a573d4f17/919422-1216074.jpg


http://dkm80tng5uqm9.cloudfront.net/full/cb6797d322440dbc42cbdd9a573d4f17/919422-1216075.jpg

i also by suggestion of users here been using braces since 2011 (im 37 btw) and my smile and teeth are improving a lot. as for being bald, well you just have to cope with it and accept it as a fact of life.
 

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It would be interesting to compare after you have healed. It is too hard to compare at this point.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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torontosc said:
It would be interesting to compare after you have healed. It is too hard to compare at this point.

I can see the difference already. Even with the bruising, notice that his eyes in the `after' picture are not drooping as much at the outside edge.
 

NeedToImprove

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thanks for the replies guys. to be honest i think this surgery will boost not only my overall appearance but also my self esteem. i was feeling very depressed and sad these days. i was thinking of quitting the dating scene altogether but giving up on life or any other things related to it was never my nr 1 choice.

life is full of ups and downs. that's why i'm here on sosuave, i never lost hope and never stopped improving even when the odds were all against me. that's my advice to all.
 
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