"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Golf Range for a date????

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Hello everyone, i know this is kinda a newbie question, but ive just been flipping it over in my mind and cant decide if it would be good or not. If i did ask it would be during Sunday afternoonish because thats when i usually go anyway.

Background: Good rapport with this girl, have hung out before, kinda went on a "date" already. Shes pretty athletic too.

I know shes not good at golf but i was thinking i could teach her?:)
Would this be good or too boring for her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've done this idea before. Went over great! I suggest grabbing some ice cream afterwards. Good luck man go for it
 

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Yea, you gotta do what you like and see how she connects with your interests-also that can be interesting for a short period of time-if the place has multiple activities-i.e,batting cages, basketball,etc. some of those can be fun as well so switch it up a little bit and it really comes down to guaging how much shes actually enjoying it considering that seems to be what your main concern is
 
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