"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Golden Globe clip Sums Up What Is Wrong With Hollywood

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O.k so we have a homosexual man feeling up the t1ts of a hot actress out of the blue and she doesn't slap him, yell at him or leaves (sort of the opposite we expect to see from the media of a heterosexual man doing that and getting slapped).

Then we have a metrosexual man and another hot girl analyzing it:

"Ryan: why?

Giuliana: you want to know why? because he is gay, he is allowed to do that Ryan. Stright man.... well if you did that you would get slapped. But we encourage it with gay men."


Can anyone tell me what is wrong with this picture and the effect it will have on the minds of teenagers who are already confused with the bashing of "true masculinity"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls are becoming fvckin' PROS at sexual selection.

Think about how many guys are going to be completely clueless about their sexuality in the coming years.

Dude, I thank god every friggin' day that I found this site. :) -- my friends still talk about their feminine sides and I just have that grin on my face... but try, TRY to show some light and you'll be killed with no guilt. Haha.
 
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I think you're looking too deep. I don't see this having any affect on today's "confused youth." What do you think is going to happen? Men are going to suddenly turn gay just so that they can touch boobs through women's clothes?
 
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Originally posted by Shiftkey
I think you're looking too deep. I don't see this having any affect on today's "confused youth." What do you think is going to happen? Men are going to suddenly turn gay just so that they can touch boobs through women's clothes?
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The problem is in having trouble touching them being a man.

Notice the encouragement to gay men touching them, but straight men will get slapped. Now think a really young boy. He surely will get very confortable in his skin, right? No way...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're taking it the comment too seriously.

The reason the gay guy was able to do it was because he developed rapport with the woman. In rapport, there are a lot of things you can do, which is the key to sales and seduction.

Note that she was surprised, but she was taking it in stride because she didn't feel assaulted. Everything seemed to be in context. Women are passive sexually. If what's happening seems in context, then they'll go along with it.

And by the way, don't ever let a woman slap you. If one did that to me, I'd press assault charges, or at least threaten to do so without an apology. Never set the tone that a complete lack of self-control or violence is appropriate.
 
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Originally posted by DJDamage
http://www.devilducky.com/media/41018/

O.k so we have a homosexual man feeling up the t1ts of a hot actress out of the blue and she doesn't slap him, yell at him or leaves (sort of the opposite we expect to see from the media of a heterosexual man doing that and getting slapped).
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One more thing about rapport. (Pronounced "rappore"). Some people will tell you not to do it, that it will put you in the friend zone.

That's technically true, but the seasoned pickup artists, (mystery, derek vitalio, etc) will tell you that you DO need to establish rapport, ie, comfort AFTER establishing attraction. If you skip the first step, you're friend zone. If you skip the second step, it's an ONS, or a no-go with the smarter women.
 
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They're both playing for the camera.

If it was a straight guy she wouldn't slap him either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think that you guys think too much about chicks and their way of thinking. you just need to sit down, smoke a bowl and chill.
 
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holy sh*t! that dude touched that h*ebag's breasts on TV. She had some delicious knockers
 
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woah lighten up mate....
first of all hes gay , she saw he was gay from the first time he looked at her , and since he has no sexual agenda behind the boob cupping, she didnt get pissed...

pluss what else is she supposed to do ?
slap him on world wide live television , and call him a ****ing bastard....


think before you take up unnecessary space by making stupid threads , so that u can get people to agree with you on a stupid dilemma so that u can boost yourself up....

go out and get more numbers..... GO!
 
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Originally posted by Morphiex
woah lighten up mate....
first of all hes gay , she saw he was gay from the first time he looked at her , and since he has no sexual agenda behind the boob cupping, she didnt get pissed...
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By that defintion a fat ugly butch lesbian should be allowed to grab and feel your c0ck and you can't get pissed either because "there is no sexual agenda there".

Why is this condition of a Gay guy touching a woman's breasts is seen as acceptable?? Why is it that every heterosexual guy on portrayed on t.v shows gets shauned by society and called a perv if he dares to do the same thing??


Originally posted by Morphiex
pluss what else is she supposed to do ?
slap him on world wide live television , and call him a ****ing bastard....
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Yesss!!! 10 years ago that would be the normal response. Today is " oh right he is gay" so the girls are conditioned to allow this even though they are not comfertable in doing so.

Originally posted by Morphiex
think before you take up unnecessary space by making stupid threads , so that u can get people to agree with you on a stupid dilemma so that u can boost yourself up....
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Here is a suggestion: you seem upset by clicking on my thread, next time don't click on it and don't respond and you will feel much better.
 
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