"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

going what to whos dating/zexing this weekend thread...

Thread starter _sideways_
Start date Aug 2, 2015

_sideways_

Master Don Juan

Aug 2, 2015

Well....i seduced work and gym this weekend...and im still smiling, but who wants to share their adventures ?

Also, we should start a weekly thread on share ur weekend plans and ur goals, like talking with one hb 8.5 and purposely stepping out ur comfort level and finding one to just say hi to. Thats it.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.