Going Totally Insane!!!!!!

[StoneCold]

Hello people

I have been dating this girl from brazil shes moved to the UK and is working at a resturant......

we have been on 4 mini dates......they have all been fanastic and unique in their own little way..........

all the signs of interest are their.........

shes laughs
we hold hands..
she talks in her funny accent
she smiles alot
she put her hand on my leg and leaves it their
she lets me play with her hair and her face
she kiss,s me on the lips..not snoging yet.........


everythings their and its beautiful when we are togthere we take photos of everything we do and i tease alot and create challenges......

I have always been the one To Set up Dates she usually tells me when she has free time......

The Problem is That.....On the dates she tells me shes gonna send me a email with out fotos and stuff like that....

she never sends me anything.....also when she is on msn.....she is not totally responsive and dosnt add any good input into the convos......

also i have told her 2wice that i have tickets to this great park.....and i tell her to remind me of when she has free time....

she never does tell me until i push it like send her texts saying im doing bla bla bla would you like to join me.......

I think this girl is nice and sweet and has Nice looks so i would like to keep her as a LTR......

Theirs little things i keep thinking.......


she has a LTR in brazil and miss,s Him........Im am Just here to give her That feeling of being in a relationship....

she works long hours every day....and just dosnt wanna add any input into this relationship

she dosnt understand dating priciples and is unexpirienced......

or she miss,s her freinds and family.....

or maybe is beggining to become to comfortable around me cuasing her to behave in this way....


I have told her that the tickets expire at the end of the month so she should tell me when she has a day off......

now im not going to send her emails or messages throughout so i expect her to give me a day b4 they expire.......

if she does not do this what shall i do.......

shall i ignore her and not send anything and let the connection we have fade away.......

or i can tell her i went to the theme park with friends and had the most amazing time ever....making her feel like **** why didnt i go......

she always expects me to push for days and dates and **** its pissing me off a little.......

ANY input wud be GREAt.........

 

[Phyzzle]

How long did it take for those 4 dates? Plus, you've got to dissappear between them. She uses IM for keeping track of friends in Brazil, not dating.

(EDIT)

Stop going totally insane. You asked her out to this theme park. She said "maybe". You never heard back. Sounds like a no to me. Go without her.

Don't be afraid to move slow with her, to go a week or two without talking.

 

[StoneCold]

Thanks Bud

But This is exaclty what i have been Doing....I Have PLayed the game Perfectly

I even uses Tricks and Advice from The art of seduction

We Date every 7 - 12 days....Its Going really slow as in terms of dating....

and I dont call her I only text her the day b4 we go out where to meet and what we are going to do....

shes accepts and offers me her availbility

 

[unorthodox]

:crackup:


You crack me up!!



BRAZIL = the most open people when it comes to sex, more open than gay scene on south beach!


Sooooooooo, what should you do? Fvck her. Next time don't ask her for a date, tell her you want to meet her at her place, or you chicken, take her for a coffee near her place, for 30 minutes or so, then go back to her place. Watch a movie at your place, something. You can bang her anywhere, and you shouldn't be as cautious as you think or used to be. Grope her, start with light kino, then grope, then kiss, touch her places. If she doesn't like that she'll let you know, but trust me she will like that, because she wants you. Then play with her and fvck her. :cheer:

Don't be an ******* and wait another 20 days for a meet. Call her on the phone, tell her 'I want to watch a movie tonight......pause....at your place.. Are you available?' Not have time or free, are you available, pause and let her answer. She say no, see if she can reschedule her plans, if not, tell her I'm really into watching a movie, when are you available. Done!

If you still think no way, just think of this as DJ principal for taking risks and pushing one step further. Women like this, it makes them feel flattered.