"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going to the movies brothers, need some help!

spax

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So guys,

This girl I have gone out 3 times with, the first time almost no kino, second time more kino, 3rd time holding hands, spinning around, playing with hair and lots of stuff (no kiss, im too much of a *****)

So now she wants me to go to the movies with her. I'm 17 - never kissed girl.

How should I play it to get kiss in the movies? Arm around shoulder? Have her lean on me? Just turn and kiss?

How far in the movie? Do I say anything? Or just stare and kiss?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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I wouldn't kiss her during the movies. When you guys are alone, you should get close with her physically, work your way until she gets comfortable with your lips literally being inches away from hers, and then when you feel it's right, kiss her. Don't forget to talk to her though.
 

Daddy The Pimp

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Just kino her alot .. Kino her ( very important ) , every second you should be touching her , holding her , playing with her or something ..

And in one moment tell she smells good and start smelling her neck and breathing on it and kissing her lightly on neck .. Than just move up , up and start making out .. Success guaranteed in case she's attracted to you , and you play your part good ..

Always worked for me ..

The fact that she wanted to go to a movie with you she told that she wanted to be kissed ..

Have fun :D
 

Leporello

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You could kiss her cheeck or her neck before going in for the real thing.
 

Snow Plowman

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Man the fuk up...you want to kiss her go for it...

What are you scared of getting rejected? What do you have to lose?

It's been 3 dates...you haven't kissed...your building up kissing as this big thing in your mind...now your looking for techniques and tactics to go for the kiss.

#1 way, triangular gazing...look at her lips then eyes, lips then eyes...at the same time move in and kiss. It's the most natural way and most effective way.

If you like routines "If you were in kissing school what would your teacher grade your kiss on a scale of 1 to 10?...Lets find out" *kiss*

Maybe its just my style but you should've gone for the kiss the first 5-10 mins of the first time you met her. If she pulls back doesn't mean she doesn't like you.

A mission I did that I recommend is for a month straight each set you open go for the kiss within 5mins because you have to realize kissing is no big deal and your just creating as something bigger than it really is.

So basically, when your both in a good mood and its a high point in the interaction (laugther or alot of emotions) just go in for the kiss. Also for now on make it a religion to become a guy who is comfortable touching women and start escalating from when you first meet a woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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