"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going to talk my plate in a trio

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Got a plate who has high interest. Shes snapchatting me, shes on the beach with her friend. Her friend is hot, we talked about her cexual fantasy and that with a woman last time I fvcked her.

Im going to ask her to come to my place with that friend and try to get something going.

Their both only 18 and not so cexually experienced.

Im going to rapport what happens lmao. I dont really care if it becomes akward I dont care about losing her. But I know I can pull off a lot with her she likes me a lot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Got a plate who has high interest. Shes snapchatting me, shes on the beach with her friend. Her friend is hot, we talked about her cexual fantasy and that with a woman last time I fvcked her.

Im going to ask her to come to my place with that friend and try to get something going.

Their both only 18 and not so cexually experienced.

Im going to rapport what happens lmao. I dont really care if it becomes akward I dont care about losing her. But I know I can pull off a lot with her she likes me a lot.
Good move

Beach? Like a resort

Tell them you have a party for 3 (her,friend, you). And you have all the fun stuff provided


Have fun.you have to convince both
 

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Im heading to them at the beach NOW, for a drink somewhere, going to try to do it. You will hear from me later
 

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She cant come she asked her parents if she could stay longer shes only 20. So now my plate comes over. But we had a great time so I almost Pulled iT off
 

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Well, congrats on having your plate over and having a decently good evening. It is easy to crash and burn when seriously asking a girl to join in a threesome. Even a girl who might toy with the idea will usually back out if it has a chance to become real, and her embarrassment will turn to anger at the guy for merely treating her as a sex toy - as she'll imagine it.

There was a girl who I dated recently who said she would like to have a threesome, and I told her in text that I knew a girl who might be a candidate. She wrote in an email that "the future is full of wonderful possibilities", regarding that suggestion. But when I wanted her to meet the other girl, so they'd know each other, she said no. And we only met once more after that. There were probably other reasons, but I suspect this was one of them. She is an emotional girl and it got too real.

I've been thinking of writing a post about her but maybe there's not that much to learn. It's just a story of losing a very hot girl. Still feeling it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, congrats on having your plate over and having a decently good evening. It is easy to crash and burn when seriously asking a girl to join in a threesome. Even a girl who might toy with the idea will usually back out if it has a chance to become real, and her embarrassment will turn to anger at the guy for merely treating her as a sex toy - as she'll imagine it.

There was a girl who I dated recently who said she would like to have a threesome, and I told her in text that I knew a girl who might be a candidate. She wrote in an email that "the future is full of wonderful possibilities", regarding that suggestion. But when I wanted her to meet the other girl, so they'd know each other, she said no. And we only met once more after that. There were probably other reasons, but I suspect this was one of them. She is an emotional girl and it got too real.

I've been thinking of writing a post about her but maybe there's not that much to learn. It's just a story of losing a very hot girl. Still feeling it.
Thank You for that bro but idc about losing This one.
 
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