"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Going to talk my plate in a trio

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Got a plate who has high interest. Shes snapchatting me, shes on the beach with her friend. Her friend is hot, we talked about her cexual fantasy and that with a woman last time I fvcked her.

Im going to ask her to come to my place with that friend and try to get something going.

Their both only 18 and not so cexually experienced.

Im going to rapport what happens lmao. I dont really care if it becomes akward I dont care about losing her. But I know I can pull off a lot with her she likes me a lot.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Got a plate who has high interest. Shes snapchatting me, shes on the beach with her friend. Her friend is hot, we talked about her cexual fantasy and that with a woman last time I fvcked her.

Im going to ask her to come to my place with that friend and try to get something going.

Their both only 18 and not so cexually experienced.

Im going to rapport what happens lmao. I dont really care if it becomes akward I dont care about losing her. But I know I can pull off a lot with her she likes me a lot.
Good move

Beach? Like a resort

Tell them you have a party for 3 (her,friend, you). And you have all the fun stuff provided


Have fun.you have to convince both
 

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Im heading to them at the beach NOW, for a drink somewhere, going to try to do it. You will hear from me later
 

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She cant come she asked her parents if she could stay longer shes only 20. So now my plate comes over. But we had a great time so I almost Pulled iT off
 

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Well, congrats on having your plate over and having a decently good evening. It is easy to crash and burn when seriously asking a girl to join in a threesome. Even a girl who might toy with the idea will usually back out if it has a chance to become real, and her embarrassment will turn to anger at the guy for merely treating her as a sex toy - as she'll imagine it.

There was a girl who I dated recently who said she would like to have a threesome, and I told her in text that I knew a girl who might be a candidate. She wrote in an email that "the future is full of wonderful possibilities", regarding that suggestion. But when I wanted her to meet the other girl, so they'd know each other, she said no. And we only met once more after that. There were probably other reasons, but I suspect this was one of them. She is an emotional girl and it got too real.

I've been thinking of writing a post about her but maybe there's not that much to learn. It's just a story of losing a very hot girl. Still feeling it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, congrats on having your plate over and having a decently good evening. It is easy to crash and burn when seriously asking a girl to join in a threesome. Even a girl who might toy with the idea will usually back out if it has a chance to become real, and her embarrassment will turn to anger at the guy for merely treating her as a sex toy - as she'll imagine it.

There was a girl who I dated recently who said she would like to have a threesome, and I told her in text that I knew a girl who might be a candidate. She wrote in an email that "the future is full of wonderful possibilities", regarding that suggestion. But when I wanted her to meet the other girl, so they'd know each other, she said no. And we only met once more after that. There were probably other reasons, but I suspect this was one of them. She is an emotional girl and it got too real.

I've been thinking of writing a post about her but maybe there's not that much to learn. It's just a story of losing a very hot girl. Still feeling it.
Thank You for that bro but idc about losing This one.
 
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