"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going to strip club in nice clothes

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I bought a bunch of nice clothes several months ago. I haven't really worn them much cause I didn't "feel them." I had chosen the steel toed boots look or sandals.

Will this make a huge difference? Well they're just clothes, so probably not.

I bet girls will still want money from me just like if I was wearing any other clothes.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/pahlhb0a4dgqmi2/0529181318_HDR.jpg?dl=0
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You have to offer something. If you don't want to offer money then you'll need looks, conversation, personality, drugs, or alcohol(byob clubs).

Simply dressing nice isn't going to cut it although it will help attract more girls. If you look "nice", they'll tell you.
 

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Go for it. Strippers are wonderful for giving men attention, and if having these women give you attention makes you feel more confident with women who are not trying to take your money (at least not officially :rolleyes:), by all means go for it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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heh 1 year here still no progress
Wrong.

There's progress; he fvcks more hot women then anyone, he has fvcked more then 200 prostitutes, he has flipped more house - made the most money, he's better looking then most of us here, he has the only bionic d1ck and right now contemplating breaking his bones to make himself taller.

Going by his self proclaimed success story posts, he's a roaring success.

Don't say otherwise - if you do be forewarned that you are a loser who makes no money and have no women.
 

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Nice clothes? It just shows a dress shirt, jeans, and dress shoes. 80% of the dudes wear those when going on. I wouldn't expect much from that. If you want to look different, wear a suit and say you came from a business meeting.
 
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Had a lot of fun. Got 2 girls numbers.

I went in there planning on just tipping on stage. In the past when I've gone to strip clubs, sometimes I would just sit at the bar and not tip anything to the dancers lol but not this time. So I tipped this one girl like $5 in 1's, and she came and talked to me. That's how you get them to talk to you and get to know them better because they're there to work so even if they like you, they may not spend a lot of time talking to you if you don't give them something because they need to get paid.

So I talked to that girl. Conversation went okay, just basic stuff. But then another girl got on stage and I tipped her about $5. Then, she came and talked to me and she said she loved my accent (didn't know I had one), and that I smelled AMAZING. This was the first time I ever went out wearing cologne and I never realized what a big difference it could make. So by the time I was pretty drunk, I decided to get a dance from her. I said I had to go to the bathroom first, but I really went in there to pump up my bionic d1ck to make sure she felt it while she was giving me the dance. She definitely felt it and she grabbed it with her hand a few times. She kept rubbing against it with her butt, hand, or knee. When she was leaning over me, I said...

Me: I want to fvck you so bad.
Her: At least you're honest.
Me: You should come over to my house some day. Doesn't have to be tonight.
Her: Okay, but you have to rub my back and cook for me too.
Me: Okay.

Then when the dance was over, she wrote her number on a napkin with her name and a heart, and I texted her so she had my number, and she texted back. This girl was 22 years old and half Puerto Rican and half Russian.

Then later in the night, there was another girl who I think said she was full Puerto Rican.

I got a dance from her and same thing she was rubbing all over my bionic d1ck. I think we talked about that, but by this time I was very drunk. I actually talked to her for like an hour but it's hard to remember drunk conversations. But we talked about quite a lot of things, and I remember I kept pulling her shirt down every time she tried to put it back up. I got her number and texted her so she had mine. Then after I got home, I sent her a drunk text that said...

Me: Hey this is (my name), I met you at the strip club. I had fun talking to you tonight, let me know if you want to talk some more or meet ;) :*
Her (20 minutes later): Yes I do
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Despite that no one responds to my best thread in years... I'll give myself my own commentary...

Here I am a young looking 31 year old and got 2 strippers numbers in one night... And what was it that I did to do this? More than anything else...

The clothes? The "money"? The bionic d1ck? The personality? The future Lambo?

No...

I left my house.

That's 99% of the battle.
 

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clothes may impress some women, but i dont feel they matter much, especially in comparison to fitness/muscles.......i intentionally wear shabby clothes to work to test this out, my shirts have tons of moth holes and i wear jeans and beat up black vans shoes, women still look at me and notice me because i lift and workout, fitness is far more important than clothes
 
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clothes may impress some women, but i dont feel they matter much, especially in comparison to fitness/muscles.......i intentionally wear shabby clothes to work to test this out, my shirts have tons of moth holes and i wear jeans and beat up black vans shoes, women still look at me and notice me because i lift and workout, fitness is far more important than clothes
So did you get 2 strippers,numbers one time cause of your muscles?
 

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Oops, I didn't realize this was your best thread in years, I had better make a comment.
So you're getting strippers' numbers now? How do you feel about bow ties? In 16 years, you could be Big Neil! :)
 

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Richard... I want to see the logic you are locked into with this particular topic:

Your topic:
Going to strip club in nice clothes

your question:
I bet girls will still want money from me just like if I was wearing any other clothes.
yes Richard.. it is a STRIP CLUB
STRIP CLUBS are a place where men GIVE WOMEN MONEY for attention

therefore... no matter your looks, clothes, Lambo... all strip clubs and strippers expect you to give them money
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strip_club
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strip_club
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Richard... I want to see the logic you are locked into with this particular topic:

Your topic:
Going to strip club in nice clothes

your question:


yes Richard.. it is a STRIP CLUB
STRIP CLUBS are a place where men GIVE WOMEN MONEY for attention

therefore... no matter your looks, clothes, Lambo... all strip clubs and strippers expect you to give them money
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strip_club
So what's any different anywhere?

I should honestly just stick to hookers except they closed Backpage.
 

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Richard we will be happy when your ****ing them without money.

In the strip club the waitresses are much easier to lay and better for a ****ing buddy. They are usually happy to have a boyfriend . Good job on the numbers now you get one over for Netflix, drink and chill .
 

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Despite that no one responds to my best thread in years... I'll give myself my own commentary...

Here I am a young looking 31 year old and got 2 strippers numbers in one night... And what was it that I did to do this? More than anything else...

The clothes? The "money"? The bionic d1ck? The personality? The future Lambo?

No...

I left my house.

That's 99% of the battle.
Good stuff Richard. That is progress and learning

"The game is played in field" That's what you learned tonight.

Most of those that comment are meeting (trying) via their computer.

You're right.....once you get out there and your mind is willing and able......there's every possibility of....adventure. I always say adventure when I go out as I don't want to be focused only on "gotta get a woman". Hell I remember a couple of years ago having sciatica so bad that it left me with a god damn limp for two months! I thought initially....fvck that's going out and gaming finished until this heals as what kind of woman will want a guy with a limp! I got pisse off staying in and one night I just went "fvck this" and I don't know if it was the combination of being pissed off and then not giving a fvck but the mind was focused and (probably half crazy) on another level. Went out just because I wanted to and to hell with everyone else and to hell with the fact that I had a limp. Didn't get a number, got a latina in bed instead. By the way, that was summer and I went out in shorts and a polo t shirt (can't remember if it was drunk too)

So, like you observed tonight......the most important thing is getting out there
 

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Despite that no one responds to my best thread in years... I'll give myself my own commentary...
I distinctly remember you saying that you were essentially using this site as your personal blog. Additionally not looking for advice from anyone. So keep on, blogging on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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