"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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going to Spain

Colin O'Brien

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Going to Madrid with my mom in a few days, but I will have plenty of time to explore places on my own. Any advice from someone who's lived there? Any hand gestures that will get me killed? Any large cultural differences in sarging there than america? My spanish is decent.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jesliejamu

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oh! man!

I think the best thing to see there in spain is bull fight and yes you can find out the time of the opening of real madrid home stadium as it has many memoribilias and all that stuff about football etc,hope you have a nice time there.
 

OzyBoy

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Cool i would like to go to spain. I will definately be doing something like that in the next year for sure. :cheer:
 
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