"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going to spain on holiday

rushing dude 123

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Hey guys,

I have been training and learning loads of great things and training everyday, whilst spinning plates, but i think i need this week off (plus it will help my spanish skills) seeing my mind is getting overtired from doing too much stuff.

I am not going to be posting a field report on this one though because they take too much time to write, but i was just wondering if any of you could give me a bit of intel for my holiday if you have been to spain or live there.

I am going valencia and i am not sure what the girls are like (personality and looks) and if some of them would be able to speak english. My spanish is quite weak and i can barely hold a normal conversation, however i will brush up a bit before i go and i have also learnt how to salsa, flamenco and samba (brazil i know) before the trip. I will still approach, but i feel my conversation will be quite robotic haha so i may need to use more body language and kino. I don't think my cold approaches will work here though.

Well anyway if you could just give me a insight into what i am expecting that will be great and i will try to prepare.

Thanks
RD
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unlike in the UK, mainland European women (especially southern european women) are responsive to approaches. The problem, however, is in your lack of language ability. Without this you can only get so far, conversation wise.

This isn't to say you can't hook up - perhaps you can in a club environment where talking isn't important, but is also depends, quite frankly, on your attractiveness. Southern Europeans are tanned. Londoners, generally, are not. You may have a few too many obstacles to overcome.

A good idea for cold approaches would be to ask girls for directions. Some may be fascinated by the fact that you're foreign and new in town. A few may even offer to show you around. Learning English is very saught after. A lot of local women may want to improve their English skills. Joining a dance class to get interacting with them is also a good move.
 

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TrueDonJuan said:
Unlike in the UK, mainland European women (especially southern european women) are responsive to approaches. The problem, however, is in your lack of language ability. Without this you can only get so far, conversation wise.

This isn't to say you can't hook up - perhaps you can in a club environment where talking isn't important, but is also depends, quite frankly, on your attractiveness. Southern Europeans are tanned. Londoners, generally, are not. You may have a few too many obstacles to overcome.

A good idea for cold approaches would be to ask girls for directions. Some may be fascinated by the fact that you're foreign and new in town. A few may even offer to show you around. Learning English is very saught after. A lot of local women may want to improve their English skills. Joining a dance class to get interacting with them is also a good move.
Totally wrong. Spain becomes London South come the summer season. Brits flock to the beaches of Spain. They are more numerous than the Spaniards themselves. And to say that he would be pale is insane. London is mostly dark people these days. Definitely not the London that Americans see in their minds.
 
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I went to Magaluf last year and the only people I had sex with were British girls, in fact Brits and other European tourists out populated the locals.

As for Valencia it is probably similar to Barcelona in the summertime though I think your best bet for finding women would be in bars, pubs and clubs.

Are you going alone or with friends? It's always better to have a few wingmen with you on holiday, it makes it easier to approach a group of girls.
 

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TrueDonJuan: Hey man your right my language skills will be a problem, but i think i may get by. I will pop to the clubs as well seeing my latin dancing is looking quite good (but i am sure my term of good is not the same as mine lol). On a seperate note about the tanning like BIG JIMBO said us english are not really white, but some can be, me i am quite tanned i could actually probablly pull off as a spanish person tan wise.

Perseverance: i am not sure if vallencia will be populated with english speaking people, but i guess i will find out. I am going with a good wingman, so we will stick to the beach, but will have a few nights in the clubs as well. I am sure we will figure something out, but it dosn't really matter i am sure we will have good time regardless of what happens.

Well thanks bros for giving me a lil insight in what i am going for. 1 more day to go.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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perseverance said:
I went to Magaluf last year and the only people I had sex with were British girls, in fact Brits and other European tourists out populated the locals.

As for Valencia it is probably similar to Barcelona in the summertime though I think your best bet for finding women would be in bars, pubs and clubs.

Are you going alone or with friends? It's always better to have a few wingmen with you on holiday, it makes it easier to approach a group of girls.
Haha, so very true. Doesn't surprise me. I won't even get into the joke that has become of Ibiza. Ibiza has never been, nor will ever be, a cool place. Not unless you find Manchester to be cool. Places with pretty girls tend to get only British males (see Latvia and Estonia). I have rarely ever seen a British female in Riga or Tallinn.

I feel sorry for the Spaniards. There isn't a grain of sand that isn't populated by a loud annoying middle class Brit come August.
 

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You should have no problem having sex with euro trash in Spain. Once they get drunk, everything goes - be safe though.

Spanish chicks like locals, but I dont see why you would not be able to pick up a few nice ones. The language barrier will be an obstacle, but you could probably turn it into your advantage.

From my experience in Barcelona, and Catalan province - the easiest and the most ****able women are in small communities away from big cities. My spanish isnt very good and was not even that handy, when everyone prefers to speak catalan.
If you are bold enough, hit the villages for poonany.
 
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