"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
going to movies with 3 girls HELP FAST!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Going to the movies with three girls is like being the fourth girl - thums down on this scenario!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Probably not a good place to do it though lol.
So.....only go if you really want to go and see the movie....truthfully. Going for the slim hope that you can devlop a friendship and a subsequent relationship is the epitome of AFC behaviour.
They will Girly-Gossip around you
They will turn you into a PUPPY!
You'll be branded as a "nice guy"
Making friends with them will do nothing good. It will NOT expand your social circle. It will NOT get you laid with somebody else.
You'll be that little puppy trotting along in the footprints of the princesses.
Seriously man, I hope this reply ain't too late...