Going to lose my virginity to a hooker, a few questions

[johnsmithB]

So I haven't been on here for a while but a few of you might remember, i'm the guy who "half" lost his virginity to a hot girl a couple of months ago.

read the DJ bible etc and started to apply game tactics and I got a hot girl home with me, but the problem was my performance was DIABOLICAL, as i knew it would be, I explained it away as being drunk but it was a awful experience, had sex for about 3 minutes before we both kind of gave up on the idea, mortifying!

Anyway i've been getting out and talking to women and getting interest but now i can't pull the trigger!

It's a mental block, i'm in my mid 20's and these girls are going to expect at least a mediocre performance, and the worst part is my game is at the point where girls i actually like are taking an interest in me and i wouldn't want to blow it by being like the 40 year old virgin in bed.

So this is where the *****s come in, and I don't want a lecture about it or anything, easy for guys who lost virginity in their teens to say its a bad idea but the deal is, i need to get the basics under control before I start bringing home girls i like, so banging a few harlots will at least get me the basics. i'm not going to fall for the hookers, i know its a fake staged event i know all of that, i'm literally just using them as cannon fodder for practise, i don't care about the morals of it, once it's done it'll be filed away in the never think about it again section of my brain

Money isn't a problem so i'll get hot ones, but in general, if i go to a hot ***** and say just teach me the damn basics, how many "sessions" until i'm average?

serious answers only please and no lectures, this has to be done, i can't be "confident" in doing something i tried once and failed miserably at, it's like telling someone to go out and play a sport they have never played against an experienced player and saying "just be confident"

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

So I haven't been on here for a while but a few of you might remember, i'm the guy who "half" lost his virginity to a hot girl a couple of months ago.

read the DJ bible etc and started to apply game tactics and I got a hot girl home with me, but the problem was my performance was DIABOLICAL, as i knew it would be, I explained it away as being drunk but it was a awful experience, had sex for about 3 minutes before we both kind of gave up on the idea, mortifying!

Anyway i've been getting out and talking to women and getting interest but now i can't pull the trigger!

It's a mental block, i'm in my mid 20's and these girls are going to expect at least a mediocre performance, and the worst part is my game is at the point where girls i actually like are taking an interest in me and i wouldn't want to blow it by being like the 40 year old virgin in bed.

So this is where the *****s come in, and I don't want a lecture about it or anything, easy for guys who lost virginity in their teens to say its a bad idea but the deal is, i need to get the basics under control before I start bringing home girls i like, so banging a few harlots will at least get me the basics. i'm not going to fall for the hookers, i know its a fake staged event i know all of that, i'm literally just using them as cannon fodder for practise, i don't care about the morals of it, once it's done it'll be filed away in the never think about it again section of my brain

Money isn't a problem so i'll get hot ones, but in general, if i go to a hot ***** and say just teach me the damn basics, how many "sessions" until i'm average?

serious answers only please and no lectures, this has to be done, i can't be "confident" in doing something i tried once and failed miserably at, it's like telling someone to go out and play a sport they have never played against an experienced player and saying "just be confident"

Using a prostitute is one way for breaking your virginity and getting your sexual side awakened.

I'd think it would be better for a first timer to have someone "nice" who likes them, even if it's not a perfect 8 9 or 10 to pop your cherry. Maybe she is fatter or skinnier than you like, but I think mentally it's going to feel better for you knowing she really wanted to give it to you.

But using the prostitute is one way of breaking it.

If your going to do your prostitute way, use one who knows how to be a GF, and do about 20-30 sessions with HER. Find someone who likes being around you, so maybe your first couple of dates are actual dates without sex.

 

[Thundernuts]

If your going to do your prostitute way, use one who knows how to be a GF, and do about 20-30 sessions with her. Find someone who likes being around you, so maybe your first couple of dates are actual dates without sex.

That can be pretty expensive, OP if you say money isnt a problem then by all means go for it but wrap up and do not get emotionally attached. Remember she just wants your money.

I doubt youll need more than 10 sessions just need to blow a few loads and lose the anxiety. Youll be okay but for the love of christ use a condom.

 

[johnsmithB]

Using a prostitute is one way for breaking your virginity and getting your sexual side awakened.

I'd think it would be better for a first timer to have someone "nice" who likes them, even if it's not a perfect 8 9 or 10 to pop your cherry. Maybe she is fatter or skinnier than you like, but I think mentally it's going to feel better for you knowing she really wanted to give it to you.

But using the prostitute is one way of breaking it.

If your going to do your prostitute way, use one who knows how to be a GF, and do about 20-30 sessions with HER. Find someone who likes being around you, so maybe your first couple of dates are actual dates without sex.

Meh at this stage bro I CAN attract 8's at least and get them interested but it's like i say i KNOW what they are going to expect and i can't be having them eye rolling after i give a rather poor performance.

I'll try 10 sessions with a decent hooker, I have got one lined up for friday night she's 31 and has good reviews, so older and more experienced which is good, after being with her a few times, the 19 year old girls i'm attracted to will probably not be a problem experience wise. i'll recount to you all my experience should be a laugh for all of you!

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Meh at this stage bro I CAN attract 8's at least and get them interested but it's like i say i KNOW what they are going to expect and i can't be having them eye rolling after i give a rather poor performance.

I'll try 10 sessions with a decent hooker, I have got one lined up for friday night she's 31 and has good reviews, so older and more experienced which is good, after being with her a few times, the 19 year old girls i'm attracted to will probably not be a problem experience wise. i'll recount to you all my experience should be a laugh for all of you!

Yes please tell. I don't think I would have her "show" everything, do some exploration on your own and go with the flow.

 

[johnsmithB]

Yes please tell. I don't think I would have her "show" everything, do some exploration on your own and go with the flow.

well ive done oral before, giving and recieving, plus fingering, and as i say i had four minutes of "sex" so i'm kind of all good with the foreplay and all the rest of it, it's just the physical act of sex, the rythm etc that i need so that's all im really wanting here, for her to go on top for a while then doggy and a couple other positions and she can kind of help me get my rythm going.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Hit her missionary too. It feels good to be on "top". Much of your exploration will be seeing what YOU like.

 

[corrector]

So I haven't been on here for a while but a few of you might remember, i'm the guy who "half" lost his virginity to a hot girl a couple of months ago.

read the DJ bible etc and started to apply game tactics and I got a hot girl home with me, but the problem was my performance was DIABOLICAL, as i knew it would be, I explained it away as being drunk but it was a awful experience, had sex for about 3 minutes before we both kind of gave up on the idea, mortifying!

Have you tried Max-Pro or any herbal sexual enhancement pills?

Anyway i've been getting out and talking to women and getting interest but now i can't pull the trigger!

It's a mental block, i'm in my mid 20's and these girls are going to expect at least a mediocre performance, and the worst part is my game is at the point where girls i actually like are taking an interest in me and i wouldn't want to blow it by being like the 40 year old virgin in bed.

So this is where the *****s come in, and I don't want a lecture about it or anything, easy for guys who lost virginity in their teens to say its a bad idea but the deal is, i need to get the basics under control before I start bringing home girls i like, so banging a few harlots will at least get me the basics. i'm not going to fall for the hookers, i know its a fake staged event i know all of that, i'm literally just using them as cannon fodder for practise, i don't care about the morals of it, once it's done it'll be filed away in the never think about it again section of my brain

First of all, I'm not one of those guys who lost their virginity in their teens. I did not lose my virginity with a hooker, but I nevertheless went with one, and I have the following issues you may be overlooking:

1) If you can't get it up, or maintain it with a hot girl, then you will not likely be able to do it with a hooker. Lets face it, hookers are also women. You know it's faked, it's transactional, and you'll lose your money if it doesn't go up. Therefore, if you are like me, you'll go cheap the first time so if it doesn't go up, it's not a big financial loss. Even if money is not an issue, who wants to waste money on a limp session.

The first time I tried this it didn't go up. The second time, this hooker, "ordered" me around. She told me to lie down, she sucked my limp **** while her a$$ was on my face, this guaranteed it went up, and when I couldn't come, she went on top of me, I freaked out and said, let me just masturbate on top of her pvssy instead while groping her a$$. I sucked her tits and kissed her a$$. It was only $ 60.00. I took a Max-Pro pill before the second one.

2) I had an major shock the next day after doing this. Was nauseated, could not eat, sleep, and was shut down for about a week. I believed I was being "tormented by evil spirits from this hooker, or incall location". The high-energy from the interaction was disjointed and could not assimilate into my normal "low-frequency" relaxed lifestyle. Could not assimilate the experience and felt molested. Based on how I described this session, it occurred seven months ago. Do you think you can really file these things in the back of your mind? You'll be haunted by the memory and it will bite you. You'll look out there and wonder how many other guys you come across in public as also been with her. After all, all you had to do was pay the money, how is that different from other guys with money doing the same thing?

It took about a month and a half to get back somewhat to normal, and until after four-five months to really feel back to normal.

Remember, if the hooker has a demon or curse in her bloodline, and you *** with her on a session, then it may come to get you, like it did me. STD's or police arrest is a big joke. It's the demons you have to worry about. If a demon transferred from the guy who molested her/other johns, or what force led her to do this, that same force can get you.

3) I went with just two hookers and I'm good. I've lost interest in that after what I wrote about above.

4) In all of the hookers I went to. I never knocked on the door. The door mysteriously opened when I went there and was staring straight at it and I just walked in. It's like there was a force behind the whole thing. It's like "Invasion of the Body Snatcher's movie". They will get you if you are not careful and try to take you over and may need to see an exorcist.

Money isn't a problem so i'll get hot ones, but in general, if i go to a hot ***** and say just teach me the damn basics, how many "sessions" until i'm average?

They are there to please you and get you off. When you deal with a normal woman, you have to please her. She'll think you are low, a pervert, or get turned off, if you try to get off on a normal woman.

In that sense, it may make corrupt your sensibility and spoil you and say, why go through all this trouble to get a normal woman, if I can just fork over some cash to get my rocks off on a hot babe?

Worst, if you had an experience like I did, you may think allot of women are demon possessed and won't want to deal with any woman unless you know, 100%, they don't have demons inside of them.

serious answers only please and no lectures, this has to be done, i can't be "confident" in doing something i tried once and failed miserably at, it's like telling someone to go out and play a sport they have never played against an experienced player and saying "just be confident"

You failed miserably because you are not used to it, and need the right type of herbal supplements to get it up and maintain it. You do not learn the art of cooking a meal by going to a restaurant and buying a ready cooked meal.

Also, these hookers see a zillion men, and she has more sexual power and energy than you do and she'll eat you up alive with that power differential. You might feel molested.

 

[Golden Arms]

Not to go off topic, but you already lost your virginity..even if sex wasn't good, it still counts

 

[prison/con.net]

I'd say that you are borderline in need of a shrink, actually.

 

[Skyline]

Not to go off topic, but you already lost your virginity..even if sex wasn't good, it still counts

I agree... Hire an escort if you want to get experience but you aren't a virgin.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=225982

 

[Alvafe]

Meh at this stage bro I CAN attract 8's at least and get them interested but it's like i say i KNOW what they are going to expect and i can't be having them eye rolling after i give a rather poor performance.

I'll try 10 sessions with a decent hooker, I have got one lined up for friday night she's 31 and has good reviews, so older and more experienced which is good, after being with her a few times, the 19 year old girls i'm attracted to will probably not be a problem experience wise. i'll recount to you all my experience should be a laugh for all of you!

your problem, you think sex will be something so nice you would feel in heaven, forget what you read about the the feeling would be, also note you are afraid then after sex she will give a score for performance,

also come on, did you stay hard or limp? if was hard but was lost on what to do just let her do it, or just do some kisses and go for a quickie, but if you was limp then you was afraid, with is ok, its a new thing for you and you was overthinking on what would happen, going for girls you like make things easier for you, with a hooker will not work as you belive it would, mostly will jsut be like a sex doll, she will open her legs and let you finish.

my guess is, you are too afraid and are getting worried with your performance, so you fail then you get even worse because now she is waiting.
also remember when doing sex you don't need to be quick you can take your time play with her body, talk, kiss and more, plus as long you have fingers and mouth, even if you " fail" you won't disapoint.

I would ask for more info, but if I was you I wouldn't worry about this first time, most first times are bad

 

[johnsmithB]

your problem, you think sex will be something so nice you would feel in heaven, forget what you read about the the feeling would be, also note you are afraid then after sex she will give a score for performance,

also come on, did you stay hard or limp? if was hard but was lost on what to do just let her do it, or just do some kisses and go for a quickie, but if you was limp then you was afraid, with is ok, its a new thing for you and you was overthinking on what would happen, going for girls you like make things easier for you, with a hooker will not work as you belive it would, mostly will jsut be like a sex doll, she will open her legs and let you finish.

my guess is, you are too afraid and are getting worried with your performance, so you fail then you get even worse because now she is waiting.
also remember when doing sex you don't need to be quick you can take your time play with her body, talk, kiss and more, plus as long you have fingers and mouth, even if you " fail" you won't disapoint.

I would ask for more info, but if I was you I wouldn't worry about this first time, most first times are bad

Who said anything about limp.

I wasn't limp, she went on top first and that was fine I was like "ah finally I lost it" but after 3 or 4 minutes she laid on her back and then it took ages for me to "find it" in the dark and then my movements were robotic because I didn't know what rythm to use. This is what I need help on.

 

[Infern0]

Three or four times should suffice just ask her to show you what's good for her.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Who said anything about limp.

I wasn't limp, she went on top first and that was fine I was like "ah finally I lost it" but after 3 or 4 minutes she laid on her back and then it took ages for me to "find it" in the dark and then my movements were robotic because I didn't know what rythm to use. This is what I need help on.

Rhythm? It sounds like you've been reading some bullsh!t on the internet. In and out...you need about as much rhythm as a jackhammer. Copulation is not a strenuous or complicated physical activity that requires a great degree of skill. It's not like doing somersaults or juggling flaming torches. If you've ever watched a porno, you pretty much know what to do. Don't over-think it.

 

[johnsmithB]

Rhythm? It sounds like you've been reading some bullsh!t on the internet. In and out...you need about as much rhythm as a jackhammer. Copulation is not a strenuous or complicated physical activity that requires a great degree of skill. It's not like doing somersaults or juggling flaming torches. If you've ever watched a porno, you pretty much know what to do. Don't over-think it.

It was like this

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8PwcthuCIRU

 

[Who Dares Win]

If you can attract girls without paying but are still afraid of being unable to handle the intercourse or dissappoint people which you may see again, just listen my suggestion.

Since you can get decent girls, do it somewhere far from where you live, even in vacation or some other town if you are able to move.

Proceed according to your skill to get a girl you like then go have a drink with her and blame the alchool not the following morning but in that same moment, tell her how you cant handle alchool and she was to do her part, this way she will contribute somehow leading, you will relax because plenty of pressure will be away from you and most of all you will gain experience to use.

There is even a chance that she may enjoy this new situation compared to all the other guys trying to rush her.

I suggest you to leave the hooker as the last option, not because of money, not because of health risks but because according to your sensitivity you may regret it.

Btw now it seems a curse to be unable to provide quality sex to girl but listen at me, despite plenty of experience my sexual performances are average at the most, sometime even less if they keep me in the club more than I want, its much more important the emotions you provide them that the technique with which you handle them.

Once I litteraly gave a couple of thrusts to some girl, cvm and fall asleep right after in less than a minute and I still meet those girls...hardly you can do any worse than this.

 

[Skyline]

Who said anything about limp.

I wasn't limp, she went on top first and that was fine I was like "ah finally I lost it" but after 3 or 4 minutes she laid on her back and then it took ages for me to "find it" in the dark and then my movements were robotic because I didn't know what rythm to use. This is what I need help on.

How dark was the room exactly? Maybe turn on a light or a candle next time. There is no rhythm to thrusting... You either start out slow or fast.