"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Going to L.A. with my wing, pulling out all the stops

muscleman

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I'm leaving for L.A. this afternoon for a few days (vacation) with my wing. We're gonna go all over the place ... hollywood, beverly hills, santa monica, all the beaches, trip to san diego, etc. I've never been, always wanted to see what life (and supposedly the smokin chicks) out there are like. A friend of a friend owns a club there and has some good ties with other owners, so we might be getting into a few places on the house, already knowing someone there. That would be sick.

We'll be putting our game to the ultimate test ... it's basically going to be 5 days of picking up chicks, a "real life workshop" if you will.

Time for some west coast love. Expect reports :box:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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vitor

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spend more that 5 days.. I was blown away by how friendly and good looking the women were. Where I am from on the east coast maybe 1 in ever 20 chicks is hot, goto a club in Cali and its like 1 in 5. You will have a good time, but 5 days is just way to short..
 

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vitor said:
spend more that 5 days.. I was blown away by how friendly and good looking the women were. Where I am from on the east coast maybe 1 in ever 20 chicks is hot, goto a club in Cali and its like 1 in 5. You will have a good time, but 5 days is just way to short..
Friendly??? You sure you were in LA?
 

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Compared to women from D.C the women of LA were a breath of fresh air my friend...

I do pretty well with the ladies but her in the city 5-6 think their 8 and 9's, and are the biggest *****es. I met a HB 7 one night, kissed her and got her number. Called her 3 days later and was like lets meet for drinks at so and so. Her reply "I would like to go out with you but you have to take me to an expensive restaurant" She may have said fancy, I told her i had to go and never called her back.

I guess my point is since there are more good looking ladies per capita they do not feel so entitled like in other major cities..

Good luck regardless
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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