"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going to club

amnbyrd

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Im going to this club tomorrow, its a mainly country music place but from what I hear theres always a bunch of hot girls. Anyways Im not old enough to drink and I cant dance. Am I screwed? I figured I need to get out more and this is where all the girls seem to be.
Any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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amnbyrd said:
Im going to this club tomorrow, its a mainly country music place but from what I hear theres always a bunch of hot girls. Anyways Im not old enough to drink and I cant dance. Am I screwed? I figured I need to get out more and this is where all the girls seem to be.
Any advice?
You'll have a chance to learn how to dance. :up:
 
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gimmeyofonenumba said:
yes. Dont be afraid of failing.

May sound harsh but its probably the best advice.
failing is trying to win............

therefore by trying your not failing
 

Lust

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Turn your disadvantages into your advantages.

Simple, approach a girl who looks like she knows what she's doing, let her know that you are horrible at dancing but want to learn, and have her teach you.

Keep it light, keep it fun.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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