"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going to a radio station friday, trying to get with the show host ADVICE!

Plain & Simple

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Ok well I was selected to be in in the studio audiance of a radio show this friday among with 10 other people.

Now ill be there from 7 to 10 and the girl that is a host at the station goes in at 10.

I have emailed her in the past and for my surprise she wrote back every single time, which is like 3 times or so, she even read one of my emails on air lol.
I was also in a song contest that they had and I came 2nd so hopefully they'll remember who I am when I say my name.

Now I know that that's her job and job and pleasure do not match at all, I'm planning in hollering at her in a friendly manner yet still showing interest signs, I don't wana make it seem like I wana get with her for the money or non of that or cus she is famous in miami or watever cause on the real I really wana get to know her.

I'm tryna come in a whole different way, cus I know that 500 other men try to get at her everyday with the same lame lines so I gota come different, which I don't have a problem doing since I know my game is up there with the best of them.
I've dated diiiime pieces so I know how to handle and talk to them and this girl is not a dime at all she's just average.

Do yall have any advice, just to keep it in the back of my mind, this will be the first "celeb" if u can call it that, that I try to talk to.

I believe I got a preety good chance but I don't like to get big headed I like to stay humble.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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COD

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get her email..........REAL EMAIL.......ummm bring a single rose......do some kino
 

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Talk to her soft and condescending. Ask her what shes doing later. Ask her if you can come over. Hit it and split because she probably dont want nothing else from you LOL.
 
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