Yep.. I'm tired of online dating which is getting me nowhere. I've decided to join this because it's 1. free and 2. I'm willing to do anything to learn on approaching women. I've never been to a PUA bootcamp before and aftwards there's an "in-field" bootcamp after the seminar. Have any of you guys ever been to one of these? If so, what was it like?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Going to a PUA Bootcamp tomorrow night
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
VladPatton
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Eventually, before you leave that camp, I am willing to bet you will get solicited to pay for a program or a book. Take caution when dealing with the scumbaggery of PUAs.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Oh lord. Please don't tell me you paid a $1000 or something.
Here in Toronto, Mystery used to hold $1000 seminars. What a joke. The guy is a joke. He walks around wearing ridiculous clothing and flamer boy accessories and that's his "secret" to being successful with women.
All flash, all gimmicks and no substance. I can tell you it doesn't work. Every once in a while my friends and I will notice a douche walking around trying to peacock and we will laugh at him.
Girls will spot you a mile away and know what you are up to and laugh at you too.
Dress different, yes. But don't be ridiculous. You will only end up looking like a tool.
Here in Toronto, Mystery used to hold $1000 seminars. What a joke. The guy is a joke. He walks around wearing ridiculous clothing and flamer boy accessories and that's his "secret" to being successful with women.
All flash, all gimmicks and no substance. I can tell you it doesn't work. Every once in a while my friends and I will notice a douche walking around trying to peacock and we will laugh at him.
Girls will spot you a mile away and know what you are up to and laugh at you too.
Dress different, yes. But don't be ridiculous. You will only end up looking like a tool.
If you want to have more success with women, just tell them you went to a "PUA bootcamp." :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Edit: Sorry, that was unnecessarily mean. I just don't want to see you going to one of these things with a bunch of sad sacks and get bilked out of $1000, like Vlad said, or go to clubs wearing t-shirts with lights on them, like EndOfTime said.
Edit: Sorry, that was unnecessarily mean. I just don't want to see you going to one of these things with a bunch of sad sacks and get bilked out of $1000, like Vlad said, or go to clubs wearing t-shirts with lights on them, like EndOfTime said.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Yeah the meetup might be "free", but don't let them rope you into anything is all I am saying.NYCJoey22 said:
I've been to meetup, but never for pua related groups.
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I'll save you two grand, 100 ebooks, and 200 DVD series' right now. Here is the super secret that PUAs know that mere mortals outside the community don't know:
"Talk to girls. Eventually at least one will be attracted to you."
Don't let those guys sell you anything.
Don't join a PUA lair either. Those guys are NOT your friends.
"Talk to girls. Eventually at least one will be attracted to you."
Don't let those guys sell you anything.
Don't join a PUA lair either. Those guys are NOT your friends.
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There definitely is, but I'd rather not get into the details publicly.Zarky said:
You can PM me if you want to know.
I guess if you have absolutely nothing else to do, then it wouldn't hurt to go. But definitely don't put this ahead of your priorities.
I've seen parts online, when it was prerecorded. I can't remember all of it but it was similar to a class. Pretty boring actually and nothing groundbreaking. It sounds like you're more of a visual learner, and you need to see it first hand experience.
I've seen parts online, when it was prerecorded. I can't remember all of it but it was similar to a class. Pretty boring actually and nothing groundbreaking. It sounds like you're more of a visual learner, and you need to see it first hand experience.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
more than that, though. George Sodini talked to plenty and not a one liked him. Lots of dudes here have personality issues which make essentially all women flee. so you need to approach a LOT but you also need to cultivate a winner's (or at least not loser's) persona.