"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Going to a prom?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Try getting some two-toned shoes that will make you stand out. Check out R&B Pinet in London... might set you back £200 but it's a worthwhile investment.
Moved to High School...
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
)"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by wavejams007
The people that use black suit white tie can be well dressed. jazz players sometimes dress like this. Also, go check teencraft's prom photo to see a white tux. Really nice, teencraft, really nice. (Although not nearly as nice as my tux was
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
are you guys dating?Originally posted by wavejams007
The people that use black suit white tie can be well dressed. jazz players sometimes dress like this. Also, go check teencraft's prom photo to see a white tux. Really nice, teencraft, really nice. (Although not nearly as nice as my tux was
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
sorry i wasted your time