"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Going to a party, need some help

onthepath

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i'm going to a party for the first time as my new self, but i'm still a little shaky on conversation topics

there's gonna be heaps of girls here, so i plan to practice, but i'd like to go in with a game plan
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fenderules

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make friends with everybody, dont be shy,

being shy shows weakness

simple.
 

Fenderules

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everybody will be easy to caht if they have alcohol.

i used to be shy, now im the most friendly. I just barge in and talk to everyone. Soon as you make friends with the guys then its easy to make friends with the chicks, and you dont have to worrya bout some douche punching you out because you talked to his gf. You get on his side and you'll have a much easier time.
 
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