"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Going to a friend's birthday party tonight, my still somewhat oneitus will be there.

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EternalStudent

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Hey, DJ's.


I have to go to a friend's birthday party tonight. I'll be there most of the night.

Unfortunately, my still somewhat oneitus will be there -- I am meeting and dating other women, but there's something about this one! I guess she just has my number.

Looking for a suggested course of action? I'm not planning on interacting with her unless she approaches me first.
 

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Chicks Just Dig Me

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Sorry to hear about the oneitis dude. I am suffering from it somewhat to, but if its "somewhat suffering" then its still very bad. Don't tell yourself its "somewhat" because it really isn't. I keep telling myself that, but it's not true, I am still not over here. Anyway...

This is what I'd do. I would go to that birthday party with a $hit load of confidence. I would give your current oneitis no attention at all. I mean, at all. Let her see you displaying social proof. How you gonna do that? Dance and have fun with OTHER girls, and let her see this. Pay no attention to her. Have fun with the guys and meet some new people. But pay no attention to her, if she says hi, say hi back and move on. Do not get caught up with her! Show her you don't need her, and just have fun man. It's a birthday party, so just live it up with your guy friends and meet some new chicks...

Of course, easier said than done. You can do it! Keep me updated and if you ever wanna chat online, gimme your SN or MSN and we'll chat. Good luck!
 
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Chicks Just Dig Me - That sounds like a good plan. I couldn't have worded it my self any better. Don't let the oneitus girl catch you looking at her!
 
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