"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going to a Club with your girl 'friend'

Vikman

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We all go to clubs with our boys, but when you're going with a friend who happens to be a woman, this is something different.

I pose a question: Can your friend, a woman, who you brought to the night club with, help you score with other women there? Are there any specific strategies?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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46and2aheadofme

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I'd say the paradigm completely shifts as to whether your "friend" is attractive or not.
 

GuanYu

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Only way would be to have her hook you up with women she knows or after you approach other women have your homegirl tell them how great you are.

I'm sure there could be other ways. I don't role with women like that unless they've been in my bed.
 

Maxtro

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I actually went to a club once with the girl I've mentioned in my recent threads. She actually did go around and got a couple of girls to dance with me.

Unfortunately the only girl I wanted to dance with was her and that didn't happen. She said she didn't know I wanted to dance with her. Liar.

To make it work, you two need to talk about it first and establish what you want to happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cableguy

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Are you fvcking kidding me? Dude. Chicks make excellent wings. The hotter the better. Not only can most of them talk to other girls with ease, the mere fact that women see you with another (hopefully) attractive girl gives you instantaneous social proof. They wil also assume you're a cool guy and not some stalker. Hot chicks don't hang with losers after all.

I have a close female friend that has hooked me up so many times it's ridiculous. I always have such a good time when we go out. The norm is for me to have chicks asking me all night, "Is that your girlfriend? She's so hot. Blah, blah, blaahhh." It's like shooting fish in a muthafvckin barrel.

If you have a female friend that's cool, and you trust that she will talk about you like you were a god, then by all means wing up. Ymmv, but I've made it a point to go out with certain chick friends whenever the opportunity arises.
 
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