"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Going through hard times...

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Faith people. Have faith.

I was thinking about this today. My ex-gf has got a new boyfriend (ohhh...), another ex-gf sent me an e-mail saying something like "where are you?", women in general don't give me the time of the day... WTF you may ask?

Yes, WTF! But hey... let's add some details!: my ex-gf is probably being fvcked now while I'm on a chair in a saturday night, my another ex-gf thinks I'm hers back-up (she was with another dude a while ago), and women in general just see me as a loser.

Is that all there is to it? Just throw the dice away and give up?

Not me dude, not me. In times like these you have two options:
1) Live like you're dead.
1) See the beauty of it all, collect the lessons that are right in front of your nose, analyze, and best of all, ACT ON IT.

Yes, I'm pretty fvcked up right now. But I'm not sad. In fact, I feel lucky. Some people never have the chance to see their flaws so clearly. They live blind to the truth. But I'm fortunate. To me was given that unique opportunity. And the more I think about it, the more I see that I have now everything that I need to succeed, even with all odds against me.

So what I'm gonna do? Plain simple. Exhile. I'm out of business. No more chasing girls for me. No more nothing at all. I have other plans for now.

I'll turn the so-called loser in what HE wants to be. No, no one is going to define my life and what I am. That's my job. I'll have the body that I deserve, the mind that I ought to and the respect that I want.

With all my efforts aimed at me, I'll be who I want to. And no one will never ever call me a loser again. I'll look at the mirror and smile to myself: dude, you're utterly amazing.

Who I want to be, is what I will. And when I get back on business, I'll be confident and happy, not because some girl now thinks I'm great... not at all! I'll be proud of myself because I strived to become the man of my dreams, and reached my goal.

Cheers fellow DJs!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJ BRAZIL, I responded to your PM but your mailbox was full!

How old are you??

You young guys growing up today have it hard because there are many more women who are masculine hors with bad attitudes and stanky smelly pvssies!

Always be a man and never surrender your dignity for the pvssy!!!!

If you are constantly chasing women then it becomes a chore and and you'll be disappointed with the outcome - live your life and only seek a woman who meets your highrer standards!!

If you want a hor - just buy her!!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
DJ BRAZIL, I responded to your PM but your mailbox was full!

How old are you??

You young guys growing up today have it hard because there are many more women who are masculine hors with bad attitudes and stanky smelly pvssies!

Always be a man and never surrender your dignity for the pvssy!!!!

If you are constantly chasing women then it becomes a chore and and you'll be disappointed with the outcome - live your life and only seek a woman who meets your highrer standards!!

If you want a hor - just buy her!!!
I feel ya PR_L. I'm 19 y.o.

I'm out of the game for now, because I want to live my life to its potential. No more procastination. I want to seize it back in a way that no woman will ever take it away from me again. After that, I'll be ready again. I feel that if I don't correct myself, I'll just end up being used, as I always have been.

Cheers!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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