"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Going running with this chick tonight..

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I'm just being curious as to how to really talk to each other while running together... it's tough to really flirt without kino.. and it's hard to talk when you're trying to breath in a rhythm...


So, what are some good ways to really give a good impression when running with her? We work together and have talked a few times.. but not too much, it would be nice to get to know each other too. Any ideas?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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619joe

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-Try and push her off the path jokingly
-Purposly cut her off! (<I love this one.Gets a laugh and a punch every time its genius)
-You can talk while you jog thats fine,just every once in a while say you need to take a "walking break".I usually say "lets go for a smoke breaK" even though I dont smoke it just sounds funny.
-With your arm,extend it out in front her her body/face and say "wow look over there" but be unaware that you just hit her.I do this frequently just for kicks

Use what Ive told you buddy.Ive done these kinds of jogging times before and ive used all of those so there pretty much field tested with great results.If she is really into running though,dont make yourself seem out to be someone with low stamina or it could be a major turn off/DLV

The best way to impress her is to show her that your a fun guy who likes joking around.Every girl I know loves these sort of jokes and it makes you stand out.If you act all serious and nice to her,you will JUST end up being her jogging buddy.That is not good!You want to bone her,not to be her jogging buddy.
 

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If you're really running then probably won't be able to talk... just make sure you're not pushing her too hard. The warm-up, cool-down and stretching after both are great times for a chat and kino... particularly when you "have tight hamstrings" and you need help stretching (have her help you stretch out by laying on the ground and bringing one leg up at a time, trying to keep it straight)
 

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619joe covered it really well, but i love pushing girls off the paths
but instead of like shoving, just run her off the path or into something by just slighty nudging your shoulder into hers, basically start moving sideways but at a very small degree so she realizes it hehe
 
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Thinks went well the first time... is there anything else to keep in mind for the second time around or just keep doing some of the same things? Obviously I'm escalating kino since we're getting to know each other.. and I mentioned that I don't wanna run 3 miles to see her... just keep doing what I'm doing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ricky

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If you run talk about races you've been in. DHV with stories like how one time you were running and warming up in the first few Quamiles of a 10-K and you were running with a pack of two girls who were *****ing about their ex boyfriends. Tell her you started talking to them for a bit and one girl asks for your number. Then say later one of the girls exes comes up out of nowhere running and tries to but in and they all started running quicker and left him behind.

If you find a girl that likes to exercise those are quality chicks to be with. My best sex has been with girls i trained with at the gym.
 

ezily

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Yeah just don't go too hard. Make it an easy jog so you can do some of that flirtatious stuff other people were saying.
 
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