"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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going over this chicks house

we all eat food

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I met this girl on myspace and weve been talking on aim for about 3 weeks, she goes to my rival school and she lives like 5 minutes from me, and she invited to go over her house friday night, so got any advice on how to get busy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shydude

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Ya, get nice clothing, hair style, whiteen teeth, smeel good!! Come over, be polite, meet the parents, ask her questions, have fun, joke around, might end up kissing.
 

Fabrizio

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yea just dont be so akward and shy, just be smooth and if she likes you things will happen. why else would she invite you. bring some mints and a condom (or two) just in case
 
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