"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Going Out"

jetboy

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Hey guys I have some newbie questions, I'm still a beginner.;) Please help me out. Thanks!

I'm a sophmore. My city is kinda small with poor public transportion system, so riding a bus is out..but it's big enough so you just can't walk to anywhere. I have no older brothers or sisters. I've thought through this and I think there's only two ways..

-get a parent to get both of you there :(
-call a taxi

So my questions are
- are there any more ways of transportation?
- how much does a taxi ride cost in average?
- how much does a "parent ride" suck?
- how do other guys go out with similar situations?
- what will the girls think/ feel?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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soupa

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you can meet them at the place rather than giving them a ride...

but seriously though, a ride with your parents isnt that bad, your a sophmore and you obviously cant drive yet, chances are she cant either. she'll understand.

taxis are way too ****ing expensive
 

PiHiPlaya

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Find a loser junior with a car. Just pretend to be his friend, that way he'll give you rides to places.

That's what I did until I got my license.
 

Jerky Boi

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To avoid the awkwardness of driving there with your parents and the long list of questions, just meet her up there. Easiest thing to do.
 

S-lemond

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not to be mean man....but either u are really advanced or idk whu dont u have ur license u are a sphomore whats going on man....but um like jerky said just meet up...no biggy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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familyguyfan

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Originally posted by E_ze05
not to be mean man....but either u are really advanced or idk whu dont u have ur license u are a sphomore whats going on man....but um like jerky said just meet up...no biggy
Most people don't get their licenses until the latter half of sophomore year.
 

jetboy

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Thanks for the suggestions guys.

Well even if I get my license, I can't afford insurance, which is like $350 a month on a 95' car, which is pretty old, because of my age. BTW how can you guys afford insurance? And how much does it cost?

But, I'm gonna get my license anyway this year..But, it seems like I won't be driving until my second half of junior year, which is when I turn 18, which also is when the cost for insurance drops a lot.
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
Find a loser junior with a car. Just pretend to be his friend, that way he'll give you rides to places.

That's what I did until I got my license.

lol yeah my friend max, mike, jake, zack god i get so many rides from loser juniors lol
 
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