"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to try!

Everybody, gimme 3 tip on what I can try out in the clubs tonight.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. Socialize and have fun with everyone. Joke, talk and dance/drink in company.
2. Aim to have fun, not to get laid.
3. Don't drink too much.
 
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I stoped drinking like 2 weeks ago so that won't be a problem. I figured out that the only reason I was drinking is to be abel to talk to girls. But then I relized that as soon as next morning comes I'm still the same dude that's afraid to approach. So now, I allways try too approach sober.
 
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that's it! I'm out of here!
 
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