Going out with 4 girls to the club??

[rgeereda2nd]

K, last nite me and some girl buds who i barely know are going out for a nite of dancing and drinks. I have never hung out with them before, so this is the first

I already have social value here. The question is...do i talk with other girls other than the 4 im with, or do i stick with the 4? 1 of the 4 likes me, and insisted that the 5 of us go out together, so she can get to know me better.

Any suggestions?

 

[Jus_LikeCandy]

It all depends on whether you respect the girl that likes you. If you know the purpose of her asking you to go out is because she likes you then you may not want to do that.

 

[xblitz44x]

What do you want? Do you want to get with the girl you're going with, or are you just going as friends? Figure that out first. When you get the club, even if you are trying to hook up with the girl you went with, you can still talk to other people (guys and girls alike). Clubs are social places. If people wanted to just dance without socializing they'd do it in their own houses. So take the opportunity to make some new friends and start conversations with whoever you choose.

 

[REDUCE523]

Even if you are trying to hook up with the girls youre with talk too other girls. Youre stock will go up just by them seeing you with other girls.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

okay very simple......

you came with four girls, one of them likes you.....show them some attention at first, get some drinks sit for a little while....then get up and go and meet and greet other people.

Dance with as many girls as you can, hell man, this is a party! You aint got no strings attached! And theres two things you will get out of this....

1. You will have a good damn time and be the life of the party.
2. You will actually make the girl that likes you jealous and thus, she will want you more and probably fvck you that night.

Got me kid.

 

[rgeereda2nd]

Yes i do like the girl that likes me. She didnt say anything to me bout going out as a group. Her friend told me, as she is going also.

so its their idea, and not mine.

 

[PRMoon]

Spread it around man! You gotta take advantage of opporunities when they come across you! If you know the girl likes you then spend some time with her but don't forget about the others. Are any of them hot too? If so then you owe it to yourself to at least develop some repetoir with them as well.

I mean lets say you see one of these other chicks out and about, around town. It'll be more advantageous to you if you've already broken some ground with them, rather then pretty much starting from the ground up later. You should at least introduce yourself to them and have some breif convos with each of them... well if they're hot...otherwise don't waste your time.

 

[Triple X]

Originally posted by PRMoon
You should at least introduce yourself to them and have some breif convos with each of them... well if they're hot...otherwise don't waste your time.

Nah start up convos even if they're NOT that hot... know why?? You just might bump into them another time when they're with some HOT friends!!

 

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by Triple X
Nah start up convos even if they're NOT that hot... know why?? You just might bump into them another time when they're with some HOT friends!!

Wow good foresight, I forgot about second degree hotties.

Good catch Triple X

 

[rgeereda2nd]

Well i already talk to the other 3 girls, so i have a solid rapport with them already! So i will also pay attention to them 3. Since i like the 4th, would i be a good idea to not give her all the attention, rather give to the other 3 and other women in the club?

 

[GodsGiftToFatBirds]

I'd also take a mate along with you in that situation.

The problem you got is that you're easily c0ckblocked if any of the other girls gets a bit jealous and decide they don't want you to get anywhere with their friend. If you got a mate there, he can act as a wing and chat to the other 3, leaving you free to get with the one you want.

You also wanna make sure you don't get dragged into what i'd call the girly gossip. When you're the only bloke with a group of birds, i think its important to be the focal point of the conversation, cos if the girls are running the convo and you're just chipping in every now and then, then you start to look like 'one of the girls'. Again, a wing can help with this problem.

Good luck. When is it you're going btw?