"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going out tonight...

noPride

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I'm a 28 year old bloke and I haven't had much of a sex-life.

I last slept with/passionately kissed/held hands with a girl when I was 21.

:box:

I'm going out tonight and for the first time in ages I'm "planning" to try and bag a chick tonight. It's ages since I've even thought this way. Requires a lot of balls and red blood :rock:

I'll probably crash on the couch for about another hour then hit the local bar...

Slightly Nervous and Excited...:wave:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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noPride says,

I'm a 28 year old bloke and I haven't had much of a sex-life.

I last slept with/passionately kissed/held hands with a girl when I was 21.
This is not to be funny, but your user CP says you've been a member here since 2005, have you not read up on the basic threads on this forum to improve yourself?

I would stop making threads and start reading up a little more if you are really planning on improving.

Just my 2 cents.
 

noPride

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Message Boy,

Long ago I made a vow to not waste my time reading about seduction techniques. Theres only 1 man's work in the seduction community thats
worth even HALF what it's sold for its Way of Gun by Gunwitch.

Deep psychological stuff. Otherwise I don't obey meaningless rules because
they basically cause me to think, and thinking for me is the attraction-killer

Either way,
I'll report back here tomorrow on how it went.
 

Pie in the Sky

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For some reason when I go out with the intention of getting laid it never happens. Maybe I subconsciously broadcast desperation or something. I dunno, but when I go out to have fun with my friends, I normally end up meeting someone. When you look like you are having a lot of fun, you attract a ton of positive female attention.
 

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noPride said:
I'm a 28 year old bloke and I haven't had much of a sex-life.

I last slept with/passionately kissed/held hands with a girl when I was 21.

:box:

I'm going out tonight and for the first time in ages I'm "planning" to try and bag a chick tonight. It's ages since I've even thought this way. Requires a lot of balls and red blood :rock:

I'll probably crash on the couch for about another hour then hit the local bar...

Slightly Nervous and Excited...:wave:
Brother, I definitely want to hear your results. Where are you going to - neighborhood bars or dance clubs. Definitely report back!

Good idea for an ongoing Thread - I will post too!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good luck man. Don't be nervous. And don't worry, life gets better for a man as you get older. Just think, there are kids gettin blown away in wars and will NEVER get to have a woman again. You have your whole life ahead of you. Women will come and go, you'll see.
 

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Jean Valjean said:
Brother, I definitely want to hear your results. Where are you going to - neighborhood bars or dance clubs. Definitely report back!

Good idea for an ongoing Thread - I will post too!
Got your private message :yes:

Sorry about the delay. Ok the night wasn't a success but it was rather interesting though,
It was one of those nights when I got a lot of female attention for no particular reason. Some girl pinched my ass (which hasn't happened in a white)

Towards the end of the night one girl kept coming up to me, she was fairly drunk. I almost kissed her, I was drinking double red-bulls and vodka all nght and I shared the last one with her and her friend. (If I had drank it i probably would have been sick)

Finally I left the bar and was havng a smoke outside when who appears but the same girl again this time wanting some of my cigarette.

This kind of scenario is typical of how I used to pick up girls when I was younger, except nothing happened this time. Having said that, I'm 28 and have alopecia so I have a completely bald head (not even any eyebrows), and the bar I was in has a very young crowd. The girl who kept coming up to me was only about 19.

So I left.


Then got into a taxi and headed for.......

A strip bar.


Yes big mistake, it was a Wednesday night and the place was dead. I paid 10 euros in and sat down at a table on my own. To my right were the only other customers (2) chatting to some strippers, and to my left was a table with about 8 strippers ALL STARING AT ME.

One of them (Irish. not very hot) came over and sat down beside me and straight away gave me the price list: 30 for a lapdance and 150 for sex. I was too drunk to get it up so I said I'll just have this drink and I'll make up my mind.

Then another one (eastern european, hot) came over a few mins later and asked me the same ****....

I had only 50 euros with me so I hadn't enough for sex (not that i could perform) and I didn't want a lapdance because I've had them before and they're tittalating at best, definately not worth the money.

So I finished my drink and went home :rolleyes:

Oh well, ther'll be other nights. Hope this entertained someone at least
 

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dont be nervous man! just get out there and have some fun! who gives a **** what happens right? tonight is a good night! halloweeeen *****es!!
 

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
dont be nervous man! just get out there and have some fun! who gives a **** what happens right? tonight is a good night! halloweeeen *****es!!
I think I'll stay put tonight. Havn't got a costume anyway :mad:
 

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Judging by the attention you received at the bar, it was not a total bust. Go back next week, same time-same bar. If you run into any of the same chicks... now you are one of the gang. The 19yr old is a good prospect, as well as her friends. Drunk is not bad... for her (not you). So drink less or weaker drinks.
Forget your alopecia, dont worry about it. but if you can get a little tanned, it always looks better than a white head. otherwise be well groomed, smell good, and stand confident
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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