"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going out facing 6 new girls

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So, I'm going out tomorrow with 2 friends of mine and 1 of them has invited 6 girls to come with us, he knows them, but me and my other friend doesn't! Now, from what he has told us, 5 of them are 7.5HB to 9HB and the other 1 is like 5-6 or w/e... We're gonna go to a club, have some fun etc.

I am the "tribal leader" of these two friends of mine and everything seems perfect! My anxiety is that I have never confronted so many women completely strangers, I know this could be a plus cause I can learn a lot about them and have nice convos when not dancing, in the car or wherever...

What if I screw with one of them? these chicks are friends with each other and I guess everything is gonna be discussed after our night! I do go out to have fun with them but I'm also looking for something more!

How would a DJ act with so many women around him? Wait for some signs after having some kino/ec/flirt chat with the ones I like? What would be the actual plan for this night? (besides having fun, I will have fun that's for sure)

I'm willing to have fun tomorrow but a couple advices from you guys won't go wasted!

Peace!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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assuming these 6 girls are always together, the 7.5s will usually be ignored and the 9 will get all the attention.

so what you should do is flirt with all of them, but really focus on the 7.5s and ignore the 9

the 9 will wonder why you aren't interested in her, and the 7.5s will enjoy the attention that they usually don't get.
 
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[QUOTEso what you should do is flirt with all of them, but really focus on the 7.5s and ignore the 9

the 9 will wonder why you aren't interested in her, and the 7.5s will enjoy the attention that they usually don't get.][/QUOTE]
Sounds like a good strategy, but I wonder if the 9 knows she's better looking than the other girls and might then think that the OP is afraid of her because of her beauty? But if you can get a decent choice of 7.5s, who cares about the 9 anyway?
 
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Lol i think if you're doing it right no girl should think you're afraid of her, you'd really have to fvck that one up...and most girls are pretty aware of such things, if she's significantly more attractive than her friends she'll know it.
 
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