Going Out/Dress

[belividere]

I never said you need glitz and glamor for f*cks sake stop reading just what you want. I said women are more receptive to men who dress well I did not say you need to dress well to get laid.

Anywho, can you bring up some bullsh1t stats about how women are more receptive to men who dress well?

Who here hasn't read NickBe's responses as to be that you dress well therefore you get the hottest girls?

 

[Kev07]

you know, I've gotten comments on some of the shirts I wear (That were 15 bucks) and the jeans that I wear too Express m11s(50 bucks, got em on sale for 20)

Doesn't have to be big ballin shirts (Though those shirts you posted look amazing), just needs to fit you well

 

[NickBe]

@ ChrizZ: I scream look at my accomplishments so the people who need help know the advice is coming from a successful man and not a guy that shops at goodwill because he did not have the balls to make somethign of himself.

If I give advice on making money and like belividere I am 28 and need to shop at charity stores nobody will pay attention. If I give advice on making money and I am a person who has actually made money people will listen.

This forum is made for men who are trying to become successful with women and successful in general, if I give good advice and back it up by letting people know I have slept with my share of women and have been financially successful my advice is more likely taken on board.

 

[NickBe]

Anywho, can you bring up some bullsh1t stats about how women are more receptive to men who dress well?

Who here hasn't read NickBe's responses as to be that you dress well therefore you get the hottest girls?

Ok belividere let take a look at my first post shall we.... I will highlight the important parts. I never said you get the hottest women if you dress well...

I always dress well when I go out and honestly it is like showing off. Cloths are like a symbol of your status I always wear expensive shoes and cloths. Women appreciate it and they are more receptive to you if you dress well. Whenever I go out I am wearing:

- My $2,000 Rolex.
- Expensive shoes that are generally worth about $300+

The first thign a woman look at on a man are watch and shoes.

- Expensive shirt $250+

- Expensive shirt $300+

- Expensive belt +$100+ (Women notice belts)

It may seem crazily expensive but it is worth every penny. Number one is the comfort a $500 shirt feels like a second skin it is almost as if you are wearing nothing. The main benefit is women are a lot more receptive to a guy with a good fashion sense. Like I said cloths are like a status symbol.

I am not saying you cant get laid if you don't dress well but if you do dress well you get women turning their head to look at you and even approaching you. I cant remember how many times a women in clubs have approached me and said "I like your shoes" and went home with me that night.

If it is midday and I am going to the mall to do some shopping I would go in what I sleep in I don't care. Anyway about showing off its more how a person carries himself that indicates if he is showing off or not.

What I said there is that women are more receptive to a guy who dresses well. I said I sometimes get approached because i dress well and I said you do not need to dress well to get women.
I didn't say if you dress well all the hot women will chase you or dressing well is the only way to get hot women, I did not even imply that. I made a point of saying that you can still get laid if you do not dress well.

 

[Kev07]

Not necesarily in defense or offense of anyone in this thread, but do not call someone spoiled if they earn what they have.

I had a friend call my other friend spoiled for getting a WRX when he was 17 when the he had to work 30-40 hours a week AND go to school to get his car.
his parents paid non of it (Though his dad gave him a loan so he wouldn't have to pay interest to a bank or whatever)

 

[NickBe]

Not necesarily in defense or offense of anyone in this thread, but do not call someone spoiled if they earn what they have.

I had a friend call my other friend spoiled for getting a WRX when he was 17 when the he had to work 30-40 hours a week AND go to school to get his car.
his parents paid non of it (Though his dad gave him a loan so he wouldn't have to pay interest to a bank or whatever)

I agree Kev and thats a very good point.

Where do you get off Belvidiere calling me spoiled? I earned everything I have through hard work. Just because you never managed to make something of yourself it is no reason to be bitter. How about you take that anger and put it to use, getting rich is easy if you are willing to do it.

 

[belividere]

I scream look at my accomplishments so the people who need help know the advice is coming from a successful man and not a guy that shops at goodwill because he did not have the balls to make somethign of himself.

If I give advice on making money and like belividere I am 28 and need to shop at charity stores nobody will pay attention. If I give advice on making money and I am a person who has actually made money people will listen.

So you dont actually know me do you? You haven't been giving any advice on how you made money, you just talk about how rich you are and how many girls you get.

Not having been born into wealth I have had to work my way up and cut corners when I need to. I'm proud to say that at 28 I have been living on my own for the last 10 years, graduated college and have no loans left to repay, and will be getting a PhD in engineering in the next 6 months. Whether people will listen to me on this site or not doesn't matter. I am proud of what I've done for myself and realizing that I can out compete guys who were handed everything in life without the name brand clothes, overly priced cars, and $2000 watches has made me become the rounded person I am.

I guess that I scream look at my accomplishments as well. I just had the balls to become my own man without my parents financial backing. I live check to check chasing a dream and competing against the smartest people in the world just to put clothes on my back and further technology. I have about $6/day that I can spend until I get paid next or risk overdrawing my checking account. But tomorrow I am going to go into work and try everything that I can to push out the same technology that 20 yrs from now will make someone a billionaire and have kids who act like you do.

Please do tell everyone how you make money, or better yet how to make money without having any to begin with. I'd be happy to listen.

 

[NickBe]

Again you are wrong my parents were never rich, I said even in this thread at 18 I was poor and living with my parents. I was never handed anything in life, I went to public school most my life grade 7-9 I went to a private school and my parents slaved away to pay for it. When I went to Grade 10 I decided to go to a public school because I knew I did not need a expensive education to be successful. I graduated high school and when everybody expected me to go to university I said 'no'. I done several things in the pursuit of riches I failed 4 times. Then when I was 20 I decided it is time to get serious about making money and then I did.

I have been giving advice on how to get women and every time I give advice I show my credentials, I think showing my credentials is perfectly valid.

Let's get somethign straight I have the utmost respect for people that go to college and get a career. I have even more respect for people who come from a poor family and go to college to get a career. In fact I have respect for anybody who deserves it but the way you came in and spoke to me you did not deserve respect.

I find it hypocritical of you to automatically assume negative things about me but then when i do the same of you, you say:

So you dont actually know me do you?

You don't actually know me either, do you?

My parents were not rich nor was I but I am now because for the past two years I have worked hard. It sound to be like you are a little bitter about being a slave to the rich man. Be proud of your achievements I think you should but don't put others down for being proud of theirs.

 

[NickBe]

As for how I made money:

-I found something I was good at.

-I wrote an educational book on the subject.

-I found a publisher that was willing to give me a shot.

-The book was released and sold very well, in fact it became the standard book for anybody wanting to get into the field.

-I wrote more books they sold just as well.

Now I am invited to speak at conferences and expos on the subject. I am also invited to speak at universities/colleges around the world although i have yet to take any of them up on the offer. I am not going to reveal what the books are in reference to as I would not like people to now know exactly who I am. I also market myself on the internet and a large percentage of my income is from the internet. Anybody can make money from the internet, just find something you are good at and teach others how to do it. Like this whole seduction thing, people have become millionaires teaching other men how to get laid.

I am sure the owners of SoSuave make a living too just from the advertising on this site. I know because I charge $6,000 per month for companies to place a small add on my site.

 

[belividere]

I have been a Mercedes man ever since my dad bought his first one. I have 4 Mercedes, one of them cost more than $75k the other three are just classic Mercs which I love more that the expensive one. To be fair I did not buy two of the Mercs, my dad left them to me. I also have a Aston Martin and I am organizing to buy a new Merc when I move to Europe.

Maybe your idea of rich, poor, and normal are different then mine, but my dad never owned two mercedes.

Go back through this thread and point out where you haven't been acting like a spoiled as5hole and then I'll listen. I'm done with this thread and with ever trying to have a discussion with you again. We come from different worlds and it seems that you'll never understand where I'm coming from and what real life is like. Power to you for it, for me it just makes me further my belief that if I become rich I should give my money to charities (like goodwill) instead of to my kids.


Edit for hilarity:

As for how I made money:

-I found something I was good at.

-I wrote an educational book on the subject.

I've been involved in writing two books so far in my life. One in engineering and the second in the physical sciences. Both books are used as texts for classes, mainly grad level classes, and the most I made from either was $800. Hardly making me a millionaire.

Your a troll.

 

[NickBe]

My dad got his first Mercedes at 50 and it was a $15,000 car. He got his second almost 10 years later and it was a lot more expensive than the first. He only got it because he and my mum divorced and the house was sold. He moved to a ****ty one bedroom apartment, sold his everyday car for $5,000 and used the left over money from the house to buy the Mercedes. That why he had two, again you *****ng assume everything. You are an idiot and you are a very bitter person.

My family wasn't rich they were not poverty struck but never rich.

 

[belividere]

power to you if you are self-made.

I still stick with my original position on this thread that you can do well with women/life without having to dress to the T. In the end you will be judged on who you are and not what you wear.

 

[Kev07]

This has got to be the worst flame battle a forum has ever seen.

/thread

 

[NickBe]

You wrote two books? and made only $800 well you must be a idiot then. I am not a fuc*ing millionaire again stop making s*it up.

I made a fair bit more from my books, if you made only $800 you got taken for a ride. I wrote the book and got it published myself I did not need to pay an agent. The publisher prints on demand and charges $4 per book, the book sells for $39.95, I pay a cut to Amazon.com or the book store that is selling it. I make about $22 net per book sold at the end of the day. Now lets Imagine I sell 2000 books per month, that is about $44k per month. I also sell some e-Books online they sell for $69 each and I probably sell 1000 of them every two months. All I pay on that is PayPal fees so I make about $66 per book. Finally whenever I speak at an expo I am paid between $5k to $10k. Do the *****ng math....

I too will stick to what I originally said in the post, good cloths make women more receptive. Good cloths also gain you more female attention so it is a good idea to dress well. However you do not need good cloths to get laid.

 

[min619]

clothes

I think you can wear old navy ($15.00 or less in most cases..) out about the town and be just fine. I think all that matters is how you pair it (with a decent pair of diesel or lucky brand jeans/shoes or decent watch).

In my opinion, you do not need to buy a $2,000 watche when a $65.00 Fossil watch will do the trick in a crowded, dark bar.

 

[NickBe]

Yeh min619 but it also has a lot to do with status and the women you want to go for. You will find it hard to take a sophisticated, cultured, beautiful woman home if you are no dressed in good cloths. This is not to say you cant but generally speaking high status women look at these things. They are wearing a $1000 dress so they want the guy to be wearing something good too, its not the cloths or the money its just the status that comes with these things that they look for.

If you can afford a $2000 watch it is worth getting it if you cant it is not a big issue. If you have game and good to decent looks you should be able to get most types of women easily.

 

[belividere]

This has got to be the worst flame battle a forum has ever seen.

/thread

This topic has been beatin the fck out of before this thread was even opened anyways.

 

[Kev07]

I think you can wear old navy ($15.00 or less in most cases..) out about the town and be just fine. I think all that matters is how you pair it (with a decent pair of diesel or lucky brand jeans/shoes or decent watch).

In my opinion, you do not need to buy a $2,000 watche when a $65.00 Fossil watch will do the trick in a crowded, dark bar.

Actually I would love a Burberry watch (around 300-900 bucks)

 

[Abbott]

*Sigh*....


It was never my intention to start a flame war. Even so, I can't control the actions of others.

However, I do think there's more to people than the clothes you wear. There's the saying "The clothes make the man." I don't fully agree with that, though I think it can be a factor.

But whatever, I asked if people assume you're dressing better than your regular day-to-day if you're on a "night out on the town." This, by the way, is something I DON'T do, even though it's something I've noticed in others. I asked this question because I wonder if people are likely to make certain assumptions about me that aren't true, even though in my opinion it's hard to be any less formal without being sloppy.

When I do errands and such I don't go around town in a T-shirt and shorts. I don't even own a single T-shirt or a single pair of shorts. The most "casual" I have is short-sleeve dress shirts and jeans.

 

[theguy351]

though people have to realize that just because you shop in a certain store, wear certain clothes...bla blah blah, doesnt make you rich...thats all apperance. Obviously you, NickBe, are succesful and i applaud you on that. But like i said, i know plenty of people, my dads best friend is 24, he has made over 2 million dollars a year since he was out of college. Whenveer i see him hes wearing like old navy or something. So....idk. Maybe its cause im Irish (heritage, were americans), and my dad is irish, we dont feel the need to be gaudy and show off. idk, my friends dad owns a liquor store and makes decent money probally like 400 grand a year....but they are so gaudy and stuff...they act like millionares, liek if you put his dad next to mine, you would think he was richer when in actuality, my dad probally made 4 times what his dad did last year. Just saying apperance is only skin deep.....but you did say that too so,.

also, just out of curiosity, what do you do?