Going out alone

[Ztr1der]

hey guys my friend cancelled on me for tomorrow night and i was thinkin what about going out alone for maybe something to eat or a movie at the mall,will people think this is a lil weird as im only 16 and going to a restaurant and eating alone?(btw i did a search b4 posting and couldnt find anything)


thanks

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

There's nothing wrong with that.

 

[ElBarto]

Get good at being alone, really good.

Be comfortable with yourself, not nervous, tense or afraid. that way, when a girl comes into your life you'll see her as adding to your great life, rather than fixing a crappy one.

Cheers man, and have fun.

 

[Analyzeit]

I'm gonna be honest with you i feel i can because your my age. it is weird. you know what i'd probably rip someone out if i saw them eating with themselves at a restaurant and then going to the movies by themselves and is 16 years old. If it was much older i might think you were on business trip alone or something along those lines but your not, your 16 and you really should have more friends not one that just cancelled on you.

When one of my friends cancels i move on to the next one and then the next i got 3 groups myself try work on that. One of my goals this year was to get out every friday and saturday night and so far nothing but pvssy and funny stories for miles.

It is weird but it is okay to go! and do go! try met new people there don't keep to yourself or you will look a lot weirder.

Do it but go out with the aim to be social and make new friends or fvckbuddies haha

good luck

 

[jeffthechef]

My opinion, as a 16 year old Junior.
If you were popular at school, people might find it refreshing to see you alone for once and independent. If you're not very popular, perhaps somewhere in the middle, people will consider you a loner.

My opinion, what i believe.
If you want to go out and eat by yourself, go ahead. People, especially teens, are too dependent, almost to the point that it pisses me off.
I hear these lines so often:
"Come with me to the bathroom, I don't wnat to go alone."
"Come with me to the cafeteria, I don't want to be a loner."
"What are you doing in the library alone? You're such a loner/loser."
"Come with me to my locker, I don't want to go alone."

HOLY ****...I wonder if some of these people could ever do anything by themselves. People are too ****ing concerned about their social status.

SOME, not all, but MOST
Popular people are too afraid of being loners.
Unpopular people are afraid of being themselves because of what people would say or judge.

It's liberating sometimes to go out alone. There was this one time, my parents had been gone on a trip for 4 days and my sister was at her college far away. It was the night my parents were coming back, and i just finished 4 nights of partying, couple all-nighters. So i decided to go to this small mainly takeout restaurant and got a dinner plate, burger, and some fries. Then, i walked the long way home so i could look around and enjoy the town. Certainly a great experience.

Precaution: Don't go out alone too much, you'll develop a very bad mindset. (Possibly egotistic,egocentric,narcissistic,etc.) Don't not go out alone because of you want to protect your social image.

Life is short. Once you're an adult, you'll have more responsibilities and less time to do things alone. Wife will always want your attention. Children will Require it.

Honestly though, when you want more time in a small group setting. Perhpas you would enjoy it better if you went out alone with one friend. Usually, i go with my wingman to nearby malls/restaurants. so anyways, if you want to go out alone, do it. Just not too much/litte.

 

[Ztr1der]

Well i have many friends i could call upon but i figured why not try going alone for once,but one of my girl"friends" asked if she could come along so we prob gonna go watch a movie together thanks for all the helpful advice guys

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

"What, so I can sit here and eat dessert alone like I'm fvcking Steven Glansberg?"