My co worker and I planned this trip about a month back. Unfortunately she can't go anymore but her sister jumped at the opportunity. I'm really close with their family, and her sister is a bombshell. 21 years old, perky and perfect. I'm wondering if this is something that I should re consider, or just go with it and see what happens? Thoughts?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Going on vacation with my (female) co worker's sister
- Thread starter JonnyD123
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
you know when you win the lottery? all these people tell you about the horror stories. "youll lose all your friends" "youll waste youre money in 2 years"..etc. knowing that would you decide not to risk it and go on living your sad mundane life. **** NO. Your cashing that damn lottery ticket baby. Bring on the bombshell.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
You should be packing.
