"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Going on tour

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Well, a mini tour anyway. My band is playing Phoenix, L.A. and Long Beach this Weekend. It's my first tour at all. Anyone here ever toured? Any advice, (especially concerning pvssy) would be appreciated.

I also have some tail waiting for me when I return. A chick I've only been on 1 date with, and haven't fvcked yet. It IS a good thing for her to sit and wait for me for a week, while wondering how many girls are letting me stick my hoo-hoodilly in their cha-cha's right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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woods said:
Well, a mini tour anyway. My band is playing Phoenix, L.A. and Long Beach this Weekend. It's my first tour at all. Anyone here ever toured? Any advice, (especially concerning pvssy) would be appreciated.

I also have some tail waiting for me when I return. A chick I've only been on 1 date with, and haven't fvcked yet. It IS a good thing for her to sit and wait for me for a week, while wondering how many girls are letting me stick my hoo-hoodilly in their cha-cha's right?
No, never been on tour. Wish I have. That's what I'm planning on doing hopefully SOMETIME SOON. It's so frustrating being a bandless musician. Currently working on a solo project. Figure I might as well do that, than sitting on my ass doing nothing. Doing Black/Doom/Goth Metal. It's been tough to find people who have common interests as far as the type of music you wanna play, as well as people who actually LIKE each other. In my last band, me and my guitarist butted heads. I was booted from the band by him because of that. Wasn't even my fault, I tried and tried to get along with this a**hole for the sake of the band and for the sake of a possible career as a musician, but he chose to keep on being an a**hole. This dude just had it out for me since the beginning. People don't realize, sometimes you have to sacrifice for the sake of your career and the band even if you don't like one or two of your bandmates. This is why so many bands break up and so many musicians never get anywhere musically in life. Sacrificing is so important. This is how every band has gotten to where they're at. I doubt everyone in all these touring Metal bands LIKE each other. But they put up with each other for the bands and their career's sake.

By the way, what kinda band you have going?
 

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Woods, there's plenty of groupies out there. Indulge in and enjoy them. It's great to have your pick of the litter. And man are there a lot of HOT kittens in the litter.
 

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O.K. Back from touring. It was a fvcking blast. There wasn't shyt for chicks at the shows though. It was just us and a couple other bands mostly watching each other play, but were having a great, drunken time. It was like a vacation, and a road trip, while playing shows. Super fun, no sleep, hungover, spent WAY too much money, but worth every dime. I will call the other chick tomorrow.
As for our music. I cant describe it, so type in Belle Bloodcreek and go to our myspace if you're interested. Its rock, punk, country, and delta blues all rolled into one, so you have to hear it to understand. We can play with Metal bands, to bluegrass bands, and still fit together.
 
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