Going on a date tomorrow

[smtimex]

Going on a date tomorrow with this girl whos moving away for college in a week...is it even worth making a move? Is it worth pursuing a relationship if things go well? (college is not very far away) Am I wasting my time even going on this date?

 

[tsmith2334]

Depends on how far away she'll be going to school. If it's an hour or less, it could be worth it. Anything farther becomes a hassle and will strain the relationship.

I went on a date with a girl I had a big thing for a week before I left for school last year. In the end it just frustrated me more than anything else. We both went our separate ways a few days later and I didn't even want to follow up on it.

 

[Aragon034]

**** her.

No literally, escalate like mad if the interest is there and make her hips feel like it's been drilled for oil.

What can happen?

1: you get blown out, Big deal, she leaves next week anyway.

2: You get blown and sucked. Can't go wrong.

3: Nothing happens, and you have a nice time with her.


Win-Win-Win situation!

 

[smtimex]

Depends on how far away she'll be going to school. If it's an hour or less, it could be worth it. Anything farther becomes a hassle and will strain the relationship.

I went on a date with a girl I had a big thing for a week before I left for school last year. In the end it just frustrated me more than anything else. We both went our separate ways a few days later and I didn't even want to follow up on it.

Yeah its about an hour away depending on traffic...but about your story what frustrated you about it?

**** her.

No literally, escalate like mad if the interest is there and make her hips feel like it's been drilled for oil.

What can happen?

1: you get blown out, Big deal, she leaves next week anyway.

2: You get blown and sucked. Can't go wrong.

3: Nothing happens, and you have a nice time with her.


Win-Win-Win situation!

Haha, this is along the lines of what I was thinking...but I was also thinking i'm more likely to get shut down because she might not want to start anything before moving on to college to keep her options open

 

[tsmith2334]

Yeah its about an hour away depending on traffic...but about your story what frustrated you about it?

Just the timing. The date wasn't perfect, but it went pretty good. I would have asked her out again, but I left for school about four days later. Then she went off to school the next week, so we were like two hours away. No opportunity for us to hang out until the next break and by then things had fizzled.

**** her.

No literally, escalate like mad if the interest is there and make her hips feel like it's been drilled for oil.

That honestly makes sense. I'd probably do that too.