"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going on a bike ride (day date) with a chick

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Tesl said:
Yes you do, you have your time when you should be doing other things - be it working on yourself, or out with other friends/girls. What's the point in spending time with this girl if nothing is ever going to happen? which is what YOU want.

This is a symptom of the problems I wrote about earlier in the thread, that you don't have enough options and that makes you over analyse non interested girls and waste lots of time.

She's already made the point that shes not interested, so there's not much point to this. If you are comfortable just being friends and hanging out (maybe trying to meet new girls through her?) then that's fine, but I don't think that is what you are doing here.

Stop wasting your precious time, and go meet other people.
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Yeah that "keeps trying" bit says it all. :cuss: I went downtown with my girl last night. If she broke up with me or we decided to be just friends at anytime soon. I could go out with another chic by next weekend who is sexually attracted to me. Cause one must always present themselves with opportunities every chance they get, as to not get into the vicious cycle of over analyzing and limited options which in turn = TIME WASTED.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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