Going into the relationship zone, I am panicking and want to run

[That_guy]

I guess I got used to rejection and never made it this far that I kind of want to feel the pain again (or something idk).

There are a lot of doubts in my mind, we are sort of in between, we are not bf and gf (she did not do the facebook thing at all) yet nor did we sleep together yet, however we did make out a lot and told each other that we like each other and we would go out again.

Maybe its just my insecurity that is sensing that she is indifferent or insensitive, I mean I did make some Beta male moves (bought her flowers when I got drunk with her, she claimed she liked it though) Seriously, its crazy because at this point, I dont know if she is still sleeping with her ex, or if she is flirting with other men.

I dont want to freak her out or anything......what do I do DJ's?

Also, i find myself doing more "nice guy" things....should I stop this? I mean I was kind of a$$-holeish to her before and idk if I should continue that or should I stop because we are nearing that "relationship zone"

Edit: I dont mind being in a relationship with her btw, just that there is something off that is bringing out the chump out of me

 

[Powerofmindset]

Awesome name.

 

[SharinganUser]

Just doing what's been working and chill the **** out.

 

[Atom Smasher]

If you are sensing that she is indifferent or insensitive, then she is.

It's very hard to advise you from your post. What exactly do you want from her? What would be the ideal situation in your view?

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Just chill out. Your job is to lead her, fvck her, and protect her lol. Let her do all the other work.

If you don't want an exclusive relationship and she's acting indifferent/insensitive.. Then that's perfect.

 

[demezel]

you are not running for president or jumping out of a plane with no parachute.... you are just deciding to give all your attention to one woman, so dont over think it and chill out, nothing is really gonna happen if you mess it up. the only thing between you too is some little kisses, i dont even understand why you want to be in a relationship at this point....

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

It's unheard of that most of you guys consider relationships before you have even slept with the girl. If you don't want to be in a relationship then don't do it. You can say no. Your allowed to see a girl without seeing her exclusively.

 

[That_guy]

Atom, yes and LTR sounds great....but idk if I should...I don't wanna burn again....

There is nothing wrong with an LTR IMHO....sure sleeping around is fun and all, but come on now