"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Going into high school

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Hey guys, I'd like some tips and pointers and things to work on and be good at before I head into High school. I want to start off on the right foot and keep it that way for the rest of the year, and all my Years in high school. So I was wondering..what should I work on and be good at? How to dress? How to act around girls? What clubs should I join if I want to meet new people? How can I show my physical dominance over girls and know when to put them and place and not let them step all over me? Answers would be nice. Thanks and sorry if it's too many questions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As a starting point i'd post your profile and current situation a la life and women so everyone knows where you're at
 
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-From the get go talk to everyone. From the very first day. Talk to guys and girls. Never be afraid to talk to girls, if you feel like it do it.
-Girls walking all over you is when you let them do things you don't want to do. If they ask just say no and maybe explain why. But if you would let a guy friend do it let a girl friend, ex. Borrowing money for lunch.
-Treat every girl like you've already slept with her.
-Being physical has to be from the start. Shake hands and hug heaps, pat guys on the back, fist bump, be excited. If you're a chill guy standing closer to people is good.
-be the bridge between guys and girls and both will love you. Be the first guy talking directly to girls.
-be sexual from the get g. You will be rejected more but will hookup faster.
-Be social to people not in your school, estabilish a network of friends.
-Invite people out when you're the bridge. No one makes plans because they lack confidence in people coming. You have confidence so make plans and be the leader.
-idk if you smoke or drink or anything, but if you do don't invite people over or out and bring free either. You'll get used and be in cool groups for the wrong reason, you won't get the best invites. Occcasionally do it if you get a free bottle or something.
 
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What about working out? Would it help if I had some nice physical features like "buff looking" or "muscley"(spell check), a fee compliments on my physical features on the first day would really get things going for me. And how do I treat girls like I have slept with them? And how would I become "the bridge" for both guys and girls?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mind linking it? I'd still like some quick answers on this topic too though.
 
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RiceandChicken said:
Mind linking it? I'd still like some quick answers on this topic too though.
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Dude its a sticky. Just look at the top of this forum.
Also check my signature.
Start working out, yes. Educate yourself about it.
 
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Practice talking to girls you don't know. If you aren't scared to do it and you aren't over eager about it, people will assume that you're cool and you will be treated that way. Accept the attention like you're used to it. Touch girls like you own them. Momentum builds on momentum so get started now.
 
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