Going Further

[andreus]

Ok, I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now. We make out all the time but when we first started going out shed always move my hand away right away if I touched anywhere "inappropriate".

Now, she doesn't move my hand away right away, but she still does. Like, I was rubbing her panties and she didn't move it for like ten seconds but then she did. Am I making progress, and what should I do? I really like her so I don't want to risk messing this up, but its really hard to keep my hands off her.

btw, she's super smoking, hehe

 

[KontrollerX]

Oh thats called "anti slvt defense".

Just do a search for it on the forum as I believe there are a ton of kickass posts telling in depth how to get around it.

The basic premise of it is give her what she likes ie the making out and rubbing down but when she cools it on you taking things further you withdraw the safer things she likes little by little which is the making out.

Sometimes you might stop what you're doing with her and say "maybe I should go" when she puts up the defense and then she'll be like "No!" and the next time she denies your advances after that you make an excuse to leave for real.

 

[andreus]

I mean, I can tell she wants it, but she just seems to think its innapropriate still. She always tells me the sexual stuff her friends do with their boyfriends (who happen to be my friends). I just don't know...

omgosh, I just realized, she might have been on her "."

I think it was about this time last month, so, yeah, thats probably part of the reason.