Going from IM to #

[Social_disturbance]

Yeah this could be on the search archives so sorry if its been covered already.

Anyways...tryin' to move from talking on chat room or IM, to get the number as soon as possible.

Whats the best way to ask for the # on a chat, and how long should I wait before doing so.

 

[foomee]

after talking to her for maybe a week or two, come out of nowhere and ask for it. like say something incredibly funny and as she goes "hahaha lol you make me laugh so much" go... "so... when can i get your number? " and include the wink. she'll think it's funny/cute. ya..

 

[smoove]

tell her ur too busy for IM. I just actually did that about an hour ago and got her number. It'd been a couple days and we're both busy so IM was sort of inconvenient. I just came out and TOLD her to give me her number. I remember one David D interview where they were saying that if you don't make a big deal out of it, they won't either. If you act wierd then they'll sense it and you'll strike out. Just grow some balls and go for it.

Oh, timing is also crucial, don't ask right after disagreeing with something she said or whatever, do it when the vibes are good. Commen sense hahaha...but you know what they say about commen sense, it's not that common.

 

[sexy_kuta]

oh man i got the best trick

after u flirt with her and have a connection

i say "what cha doing this week?" and they answer im not sure or something like that,

be like "well if im not busy we should chill together" then they would be for sure

then i say "aight whats a number i can reach you at"

they will give u one

then you reply "aight i'll give you a call sometime this week"
then u bounce like that

it ALWAYS works.. just once.. the girl exuse was she wanted to get to know me better on msn.. im like i got no time for that so i deleted her

 

[smoove]

Originally posted by sexy_kuta
oh man i got the best trick

after u flirt with her and have a connection

i say "what cha doing this week?" and they answer im not sure or something like that,

be like "well if im not busy we should chill together" then they would be for sure

then i say "aight whats a number i can reach you at"

they will give u one

then you reply "aight i'll give you a call sometime this week"
then u bounce like that

it ALWAYS works.. just once.. the girl exuse was she wanted to get to know me better on msn.. im like i got no time for that so i deleted her

Yeah, i've pulled those stunts too. I love it. It's like they have to give you their number cuz how the f*ck else are you supposed to chill?!? It's great. Co-Sign for sure!

Gettin a number is only a step in the whole process, so really, honestly, it's not a big deal. Go in with this attitude and you'll be nice and confident. Nervousness and being unsure of yourself generally doesn't help much in the attraction/seduction process. Not saying you are, im just writing that for other people reading this.

peace

 

[Social_disturbance]

pretty good advice here thnx.

But there's no way im gonna wait one or two weeks before asking 4 the #.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

My Phone Game:

lol i ask for girls numbers in the middle of the conversation.I've been rejected for a number maybe 2x in my whole life and received zero fake numbers.

I have literally dozens of phone numbers in between my cellphone and my notebooks that I never called more than once.

I call just to set up meetings.I don't retun phonecalls unless I'm extremley bored or if it's worth my while.

Getting the numbers and getting dates is the last thing i'm worried about.

I'm more worried about girls flaking out at the last second.

Photos,emails,im's,calls,numbers,messages,etc..that's all for bragging rights.But once you get there it's all a small jump to the bedroom.