"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Going from friend, to falling for you

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So there's this girl who I have so much fun hanging out with, and we've hooked up and we get a long really well, but now she is falling for me (she said so) and I don't want a girlfriend because I just came out of an LTR(4 years), and she knows this so she said she thinks we should stop dating and stuff (hooking up/going out alone), so now its hard to hang out with her as much. But I enjoy her company so much (great flirt), what can I do?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds to me like she's doing a good old take away on you. It works on guys just as well.

The plan here is she knows you were enjoying her company and the physical stuff, so she'll stop it, and wait for you to give her what she wants to get it back.

Whoever cares the least wins.
 
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So I should not care and then I can get that fillet mignon again? Like completely ignore her? I see her every day (club sport).
 
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