"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Going from friend, to falling for you

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thegoodstuff

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So there's this girl who I have so much fun hanging out with, and we've hooked up and we get a long really well, but now she is falling for me (she said so) and I don't want a girlfriend because I just came out of an LTR(4 years), and she knows this so she said she thinks we should stop dating and stuff (hooking up/going out alone), so now its hard to hang out with her as much. But I enjoy her company so much (great flirt), what can I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds to me like she's doing a good old take away on you. It works on guys just as well.

The plan here is she knows you were enjoying her company and the physical stuff, so she'll stop it, and wait for you to give her what she wants to get it back.

Whoever cares the least wins.
 
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So I should not care and then I can get that fillet mignon again? Like completely ignore her? I see her every day (club sport).
 
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