"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going for "weak" girls

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To give a better perspective, I am not American by birth, and I hang out frequently within my ethnic group. This includes the nightlife too.

By "weak", I mean girls who are:

- From the home country, haven't been in the United States long. Typically very poor or virtually nonexistant English skills.

- Theoretically in the US on student visas on the premise of learning English. They are different from foreign students who are here to attend a college. The latter tend to be very well off in the home country, while these girls in question tend to be not in the best of financial circumstances.

- A lot of them appear to be "partyer" types, as in the type of girls who did nothing but party all through college, couldn't land a decent job in the home country, and are now in the US to try to make a new life.

- Due to circumstances - specifically that they haven't gotten over their partying habits and the fact that they tend to live deep within the local ethnic community, the probability of their mastering the English language seems to be slim.

Anyways, I've been noticing these kinds of girls at clubs and am wondering if I should target them. If you've read any of my other posts, you know I've had incredible bad luck with women in the past.

The downside is that they could very well be seeing me as little more than a potential greencard dispenser. I'd be very wary of them as potential LTR material. I've heard of stories of other guys getting burned by girls like these.

From a different point of view, would this be dishonorable?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Dont be a tool. Get some standards for heavens sake.
 

Warrior74

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its been said that show me the women a man beds and I'll tell you what kind of man he is....

its also been said "get in where you fit in" and "sometimes you need a starter ho to get your game up and running"

decide which road is for you. A starter ho that you KNOW you will not commit to and you plan on pulling out every time on can help you build your confidence the same way training wheels help you learn to ride a bike.

But pulling a quality woman can make your confidence skyrocket as well. And once you do that, you won't want to go back to bottom feeding again.

The choice is yours.
 

magickarl

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Warrior74 hit the nail on the head.

If you haven't had a whole lot of luck with women in the past, "Slaying a few hoodrats" (Grandmas Boy reference) may be just what you need to up your skills. Getting laid definetley helps your confidence, and having a steady supply of ass makes you less desperate and therefore more attractive. That said, I wouldn't let on to quality women that you're just banging a bunch of sluts.

I can admit that I've dipped into the gutter a few times, but the important thing to remember is to never ever ever try to cultivate a LTR with a skank.

"We never love them ho's, we out the door" - Snoop Dogg
"You can't turn a ho in to a housewife. Ho's don't act right" - Ludacris

Just remember that ho's are a crutch. Just like how women might cling on to a guy until they can find something better, you are doing the same thing. It's just a steady piece of ass until you can land a hottie. Always be on the lookout for something better, and never settle for a skeezer.

Good luck buddy
 
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