"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Haven't been there in a while. Used to go out all the time. I live 30 minutes away. Usually doesn't seem worth my investment of time. But I drank one beer after "work" today so I felt like going. My uber is 7 minutes away.

What will happen? Nothing. Because I hate people. Chances of me getting a phone number? Zero. Chances of me getting laid or at least a BJ? Zero percent.

But I really don't give a fvck and would probably turn it down even if a girl offered cause I don't know where she's been.

Plus, I can fvck hookers any time so sex is not something I'm lacking.

I'll just get drunk over the next several hours then Uber home, I suppose. I didn't even realize it's Friday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suddenly occurred to me that I never have any fun. I'm always stressed and angry. I don't even care. I'll probably die of cancer some day, anyway.
 
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Immediate notes:

Shouldn't have worn steel boots with paint stain shorts. Was not giving a fvck when I left. Regretted it as soon as I got out of Uber.

Super hot bartender. 10/10. Need to go out more. Buy Lambo. Have mansion. Be interesting, talkative, social.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Commitment or willingness to commit is a potential value to girls. Assuming you have some value that she wants. No girl wants to be somebodies fvck toy. Even if she did, she wouldn't necessarily allow herself to be.

Being super quiet and typing on phone makes you WEIRD. Like me right now.
 
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I AM on these "super babes" level because I'm smart and hard working enough.

I actually do have good social skills when the stars align and when I want to.
 
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Suddenly struck me that I may have some personality issues in the way. I'm really angry. I don't even know why.

I don't know that I can fix this tbh.

Oh well.

I'll just buy my Lambo for attention and occasionally mention my robo-d1ck.
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
Haven't been there in a while. Used to go out all the time. I live 30 minutes away. Usually doesn't seem worth my investment of time. But I drank one beer after "work" today so I felt like going. My uber is 7 minutes away.

What will happen? Nothing. Because I hate people. Chances of me getting a phone number? Zero. Chances of me getting laid or at least a BJ? Zero percent.

But I really don't give a fvck and would probably turn it down even if a girl offered cause I don't know where she's been.

Plus, I can fvck hookers any time so sex is not something I'm lacking.

I'll just get drunk over the next several hours then Uber home, I suppose. I didn't even realize it's Friday.
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Kudos to you for going out. You should talk to people and get out of your shell. Do you think you have anti-social personality disorder? Why don't you like people? You would be happier if you tried to connect with others. You can't be happy being bitter all the time. Those zero percent chances of having fun or getting laid can easily change if you put in effort to make something happen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fzatf said:
Kudos to you for going out. You should talk to people and get out of your shell. Do you think you have anti-social personality disorder? Why don't you like people? You would be happier if you tried to connect with others. You can't be happy being bitter all the time. Those zero percent chances of having fun or getting laid can easily change if you put in effort to make something happen.
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Your "advice" is not helpful to me.

I'm going to block you because you're annoying. You're even worse than this hangover.
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
would probably turn it down even if a girl offered cause I don't know where she's been.
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RichardTheFrog said:
Plus, I can fvck hookers any time so sex is not something I'm lacking.
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You would turn down a girl offering herself because you don't know where she's been... Do you know where the hookers have been?

You're bitter all the way through, but you probably already know that. The question is, do you even want to fix it? You seem to enjoy your misery in a fvcked up way.

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I'll just buy my Lambo for attention and occasionally mention my robo-d1ck.
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You know a Lambo might give you attention, but you also know it won't give you lasting peace and happiness. It'll be fun at first of course, but you'll eventually go back to feeling just as hollow as you feel now. Also, is that regret about your d!ck surgery I'm hearing? In that case done is done, you gotta live with that now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You sound like a supreme gentlemen to me, I don't know how you're not doing well. Do you have a bmw?
 
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I thought this "going downtown" thread was about oral sex on a woman. Huge dissapointment! Its about some dude who feels sorry for himself. Man up bro, we all got **** going in our lives, and guess what, nobody cares! With all due respect, you arent any different, lose the skirt you are wearing and put on your big boy pants and do what you have to do to improve yourself instead of complaining. You are only getting hookers because thats what you deserve, I can see by your posts that you have nothing to offer a woman, fix yourself my friend.
 
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