Lately I've come to realize a few things about meeting women. Being a veteran of doing cold approaches and having done at least two I am confident to talk a little about the subject.
The whole thing is about worth. I walked along the streets of my city today and I looked at the women and I must confess NONE of them really turned my eyes... sure they were pretty and sometimes even beautiful. But Beauty is dime a dozen nowadays. Women spend so much time on making themselves beautiful they forget to work on everything else.
Go and talk to a standard girl nowadays and ask them what they do and the common answers are... "oohh.. I hang with my friends, party.... train... eeh". The truth is guys put too much value into looks and too little to their inner qualities. What's with all this HB nonsense... Why not HBHP hot babe-hot personality? Even if it's just for sex women you can connect with = better sex.
When I see people here I hear... "ohh I am out sarging.. got 12312123 numbers and stuff.. you should be out sarging too!... I have beatiful women...! Listen to tha alpha". It's just amazing to see all these people who approach all these women blindly and waste their time instead of actually just approach the women who seem interesting. Actually knowing what you want will save yourself ****load of time.
To be honest I prefer to be shot in the head than to talk to some IQ inhibited blonde who has no social skills beside to talk about herself. To be a don juan you don't have to approach lots of women, that's what noobs do. They approach 10 women a week just to learn the game. Make picking up women secondary. Toss out the seduction books and do something productive with your life. A don juan or whatever just have a feeling inside he can get women whenever he feel he needs one. He don't approach, he meet women. That's my opinion anyway. The point is:
* Make quality approaches, don't approach women just because you feel you have to to be a don juan. Check out the ones who seem cool, you can usually see alot of their persoanlity when looking at them.
* If you don't like their personality or they just don't fit you end the convo directly and move on. When approaching women, what do they have that can enrich your life?
* Make picking up women secondary... do it when it feels good and don't see it as an approach... see it as talking to some new persons who happen to be of the opposite sex.
* Picking up women and making cold approaches just make you seem desperate and player like... I don't see the point when you can meet women in so many different places.
The whole thing is about worth. I walked along the streets of my city today and I looked at the women and I must confess NONE of them really turned my eyes... sure they were pretty and sometimes even beautiful. But Beauty is dime a dozen nowadays. Women spend so much time on making themselves beautiful they forget to work on everything else.
Go and talk to a standard girl nowadays and ask them what they do and the common answers are... "oohh.. I hang with my friends, party.... train... eeh". The truth is guys put too much value into looks and too little to their inner qualities. What's with all this HB nonsense... Why not HBHP hot babe-hot personality? Even if it's just for sex women you can connect with = better sex.
When I see people here I hear... "ohh I am out sarging.. got 12312123 numbers and stuff.. you should be out sarging too!... I have beatiful women...! Listen to tha alpha". It's just amazing to see all these people who approach all these women blindly and waste their time instead of actually just approach the women who seem interesting. Actually knowing what you want will save yourself ****load of time.
To be honest I prefer to be shot in the head than to talk to some IQ inhibited blonde who has no social skills beside to talk about herself. To be a don juan you don't have to approach lots of women, that's what noobs do. They approach 10 women a week just to learn the game. Make picking up women secondary. Toss out the seduction books and do something productive with your life. A don juan or whatever just have a feeling inside he can get women whenever he feel he needs one. He don't approach, he meet women. That's my opinion anyway. The point is:
* Make quality approaches, don't approach women just because you feel you have to to be a don juan. Check out the ones who seem cool, you can usually see alot of their persoanlity when looking at them.
* If you don't like their personality or they just don't fit you end the convo directly and move on. When approaching women, what do they have that can enrich your life?
* Make picking up women secondary... do it when it feels good and don't see it as an approach... see it as talking to some new persons who happen to be of the opposite sex.
* Picking up women and making cold approaches just make you seem desperate and player like... I don't see the point when you can meet women in so many different places.